That's the problem. Based on those perfomance reviews I was expecting more than what I recieved. I hope that 10 different guys wouldn't be that far off. From what most of you are saying I think I got the old switcherooo! Is it bad that my balls feel kinda funny?
I recently had my first experience with a provider and am quite perplexed. I got her reviews from ter in which she had at least 9 or 10 very positive reviews on both looks and performance. When she arrived my heart sank along with my dick. To me, she looked nothing like the pictures she posted and seemed to be about 10years older than what ter has listed for her. Most of the reviews (which were recent) gave this woman a 9-10 on looks, whereas I would probably say a 6. Her performance was very mechanical with no enthusiasm and it took all my willpower just to get a release. I set an hour appointment and was thankful it only took 30 minutes. She offered round two, I declined and was grateful for her departure. Afterwards, all I could think about is what kind of person would give this woman such high reviews on her looks and abilities.
Being new I’m not sure what to do next.
Do I give this provider a review? If so, my review will be way different from her norm. I feel like my review might save someone else from making the same mistake that I did. Will this screw up a provider reference for me in the future?
Am I expecting too much? I tried hard to find a provider that was eager to F*** and not be a dead fish. I was also hoping that I would be attracted to that person, hence looking at the pictures prior to setting an appointment.
I understand attraction is subjective, but is there a way to weed out reviews from guys who like ugly women?
I would appreciate an experience hobbyist point of view.
Some like fat bitches that would be shot if they were animals. Post an honest review my friend from YOUR eyes. If she's foul, old, or gross... say so! If she was a porker, say so! Without honesty, reviews are worthless. Sorry this happened to you.
Your review is YOUR review. Not hers or anyone else's. Write it honestly and fairly. There's no real good explanation for the disparity between your experience and that of the other reviewers unless we can see the profile you're talking about. Even then, there might not be a good explanation. The only thing we can do, collectively and individually, is to try to be as honest and fair as possible.
Some reasons may be as follows.
The other reviewers truly dig her looks, and she's just not your type. In fact, you may be the one that's different and the rest of us may think she's hot. Very subjective.
Some reviewers have no balls and will not write a bad review of a provider, particularly an independent because of some of the drama it may cause.
She may have written some of the reviews herself or had friends write them (check the history of the other reviewers)
Or any number of reasons. You can't help that, but you can be honest on your own review.
Good luck
I think our feathered friend from the south makes some good points. I think the biggest problem is "reviewers with no balls" its the only reason I can come up with for why some, obviously less than average looking women get those 8's and 9's for looks. I don't care if she can suck a tennis ball through a twenty five foot garden hose, ugly is still ugly.
The rest of us will owe you a debt of gratitude if you will just tell the truth, according to your own standards.
hope you will be too.
One man's beauty is another man's dog.
Everyone is looking through different eyes.
I'm an over 45 lady who is very upfront about my differences between all the beautiful ladies here. Some say I put myself down. Many say the beauty from within shows through.
All I can say is it sure feels good to know that so many feel this older mature woman is still so desirable. I am enjoying every minute of it!
Kisses Haley
Yes, you should write a review and it should be honest. If you are going to look over your shoulder and worry about the repercussions of writing reviews than, quite frankly, you are wasting your time and ours here on TER.
Secondly I have a question. Did you just look at the numbers or did you actually read her reviews? Yes, appearance is subjective, heck, even performance can be subjective but the words of the guys who actually saw this gal are what you really want to be looking at.
Lastly, and I only bring this up because it HAS happened more than once, it IS possible that someone hijacked this ladies reviews and TER identity. Was the contact email or phone number on her profile the same as what you actually used for initial contact?
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I agree with the sage advice from the wise Dixie_Chicken, and have one one thing to add.
Since you said "she looked nothing like the pictures she posted" you may also have been the victim of a B&S (Bait & Switch). Whatever happened to you, honesty is the best policy or this place loses all it's value. So write an honest review of the experience YOU had.
Hope you have better luck next time. There ARE many worthwhile ladies out there.
C_K
I have found the pictures to be very accurate representations of what the provider looks like. Sometimes they even look better in person because of a blurred out face. If a provider has put on a few pounds it is usually reflected in the review. My reviews are very complimentary but I do my homework and am picky about who I see. I also have an agency that calls me with suggestions and they are 2 for 2. I am sure that this can happen but only with providers with few reviews. Don't look for crazy bargains either. If someone is half or a third less than the average there is a reason and you don't want to find out why. $300 for a great time with a hot provider that provides what she promises or $160 for a provider full of either "I don't do that" or "that will be extra". Never happened to me but I bargain hunt I bet it will. I am sure that personal taste is also an issue. Ever see a provider that has lots of 8 and 9's and then a 4 or 5 every 20 or 30 reviews?
I have to ask if you are VIP & read the reviews or are just flying by the numbers which I've found to have lacking information...
You should cool off for a day. After examining your expectations, whether or not you had chemistry, you should write an honest review.
I NEVER go on just looks, I read the full reviews... I've not been disappointed since I joined TER.
skb
So, 9 or 10 out of what? How many other reviews did she have, and what were the scores. What did the full reviews disclose about her? I find it questionable that so many guys would give high marks to a woman who does not deserve them. If a woman gets consistently good scores and reviews, and you end up with something less that you expected, then something has gone terribly wrong. It's doubtful that it's about a bunch of gutless hobbyists who can't or won't give and honest review, or who have no taste in women. You could try to pm some of the guys who reviewed her, and get their take on their experience. I would recommend an honest review, and don't give up. I think it was just a fluke.
I tend to agree with Bostonguy, either bait and switch or she had someone take her place for other reasons..IMHO
"To me, she looked nothing like the pictures she posted and seemed to be about 10years older than what ter has listed for her. Most of the reviews (which were recent) gave this woman a 9-10 on looks, whereas I would probably say a 6. Her performance was very mechanical with no enthusiasm and it"
Give a honest review and make note of the age discrepancy in your review..
you not submitting a True review makes you guilty of the same..
girls like this give girls like us a bad rep ..
did the men that reviewed her / review other ladies as well ?
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I like older women so if she looked 10 years older than her picture, it could be 10 years more beautiful to me. Some guys like curves as well. YMMV
I usually find the reviews by a large segment of the TER populace to be on the money. Very unusual to see a 9 where a 6 should be......of course YMMV, esp on performance.....but the looks portion is usually very close to accurate....
Better luck next time.....but, yes, please post a review.
Pretz
That's the problem. Based on those perfomance reviews I was expecting more than what I recieved. I hope that 10 different guys wouldn't be that far off. From what most of you are saying I think I got the old switcherooo! Is it bad that my balls feel kinda funny?
However, sometimes, one man's 6 IS another man's 8 or 9. We all have different tastes, of course. If she was so vastly different in appearance, it may well have been a bait and switch like was mentioned.
The bottom line is, write an HONEST review. Any thing less than total honesty does no one, including you, my friend, any good.
Before your next encounter, make sure you read the reviews, not just look at the numbers. You might even want to PM one or two of the reviewers to get some additional info.
Swim
My first thought was B & S. If this was an agency lady, perhaps the agency pulled the switch (could have been for a legitimate reason but they should have notified you).
Secondly, was your hygiene top notch? If you were not clean, that could have effected her performance. I know, no effect on her appearance.
Hope your next experience is a better one!
I just went to post my review (feeling good from all your great advice) for this provider and behold, someone else posted a similar experience as mine. I wish he made the review post about a week earlier. He too thought she was about 10 years older than her listed age and rated her looks at a 6. Thanks to all!
-- Modified on 8/13/2008 6:07:30 PM
the same provider as Mistabeo in the thread below, but it seems as though she didn't have any 8's or 9's recently.
Since another guy had the same experience as you, then the previous reviews probably fit the categories described in the posts above: either they just have different tastes than the you and the other guy or they were of the ball-less category.
Good Luck
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