That’s one way to ask, However, even then, as WildTurkey stated, never relate it to service in your conversation. Because in many state, the simple conversation of exchange of anything, that’s money of course, lollipops, kisses, hugs, chocolates, and yes, even roses for service is considered to be solicitation!!! And that’s all LE needs for to get you!!! Just use extreme caution as you will find that every situation is different, but you will learn how to deal with each as you experience them. Good luck!
Sorry if this has been covered on here, but I've gone back about a dozen pages and don't see this exact question... and yes, I am a noob.
If you aren't supposed to talk about it, how do you know how much to put in the envelope? And yes, I know that ads have info - but not all. Websites have info, but not all. TER has the amt on the profile, but sometimes there are contradicitons.
Example: TER says 250 donation, but a review said 400 donation. I'd hate to put 250 and be insulting, or worse...
Can't ask the booker, can't ask the provider, can't put it in email... *sigh* I am confused on this one. How do you know how much to donate?
I had the same question. Here is a link to where I asked, and the helpful responses. It worked for me.
If she doesn't post her rates on her website or ad, she is inviting you to ask. Best to just ask "Are the rates on your TER profile correct?". If not, she'll let you know. The only way you can screw up is by asking the rates when she clearly states them on her ad/website, or ask exactly what to expect for your $$$.
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You can always ask if it is not clearly listed on her ad or website, especially if she has a booker, that is their job. I would also never assume from their TER profile page, that may not be up to date.
Just do not ask and relate it to service, like 'How much does it cost for an hour of real GFE, and does that come with a BBBJ?' LOL! You get the point, just be cool about it.
there is not breakdown of her rates as hotel rate, outcall or incall then you may mention what is on TER. I noticed on TER your gift for an hour of incall is 250 and wanted to make sure that was correct. She may say yes or she may give you a more current rate. You also may be lucky and she will offer you a special for being so nice.
The most important thing to remember is, never ask about what services you want during that conversation. That is for your safety and hers.
Kisses Haley
A couple of times, I was not sure, so I asked, "How many roses should I bring?" It was no problem then, she told me, and we were off to the races.
Swim
That’s one way to ask, However, even then, as WildTurkey stated, never relate it to service in your conversation. Because in many state, the simple conversation of exchange of anything, that’s money of course, lollipops, kisses, hugs, chocolates, and yes, even roses for service is considered to be solicitation!!! And that’s all LE needs for to get you!!! Just use extreme caution as you will find that every situation is different, but you will learn how to deal with each as you experience them. Good luck!
I have a slightly different question. If you are meeting your date in a public place, say for cocktails or dinner, where should one leave the envelope?