First visit in my modern era was August 2002. I found this woman on Eros and didn't know about TER at the time. I was damn lucky in that the two ladies I was selecting between, the one I did not chose I later discovered was listed here as a RIPOFF.
In hindsight, what, if anything, would you change about who was your first? What was your criteria then vs. now?
I didn't have criteria back then, only that she be able to walk, talk, or crawl. I think it was at one of the then-many massage parlors on Broadway in San Diego, around 1971. Ah, those were the days!!!
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First visit in my modern era was August 2002. I found this woman on Eros and didn't know about TER at the time. I was damn lucky in that the two ladies I was selecting between, the one I did not chose I later discovered was listed here as a RIPOFF.
It was 1975 and I went to a house on Trowbridge Street in Cambridge, Ma., that was used by a lot of differnt gals.
She was a very petite blonde and I got a very light ten minute back rub with power, then I flipped over and came after about thirty seconds.
It was all so innocent and charming.
You never forget your first.
I met Cindeee in Buffalo, NY. All I wanted was to get laid. I hadn't gotten laid for about 3-1/2 years. My only criteria sex. What I was about to learn is why I'm still here. I knew nothing about GFE and all that came with it. I had the most wonderful evening, and still see Cindeee every chance I get. Would I change anything? Maybe I'd have done it sooner, instead of waiting until I was 54 years old, but I would never want to change who I did it with.
Of course my criteria has changed, but only because she showed me how much more there is than just getting laid.
I should have avoided her and found somebody better, but back then...1990...I was naive, uneducated and just plain horny. It was a fairly small town and you kinda had to take what you could get.
My criteria back then was just about whoever I could find and many times I couldn't find anybody.
Moving to a more urban area has helped...A LOT!!!, But also, I have learned a lot since then. Now I generally take my time and find a lady who does the things I like and has a good attitude and who is good at her job.
But sometimes when I am back in that city, I go to the old neighborhood and cruise the streets and remember where I started, and think about how far I have cum.
Back then I could never have imagined the quality of ladies I have met in my TER career and the things they have done to me.
my mother. When you're done with her, send her back home to make me some bacon and eggs. LOL
what is the obsession with bacon and eggs?!?!?
LOL
Q: What did the hen say when she saw a plate of scrambled eggs?
A: What a bunch of mixed up kids.
Groan!
When I began this hobby, I didn't know about TER... had a couple of less than stellar experiences. YES, I'd like a "do over". Where do we sign up.
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only criteria was female and sex, and that's about all I got. lol
who's picky? but I guess having sex with your own species should probably be part of anyone's criteria.
In the TER era, I struck gold the first time out. After several weeks of research on these boards, I finally went ahead and contacted a well reviewed, visiting lady. The rest is history...will be seeing her again this w/e! So, no, I would not make any changes. As to my criteria now with new ladies: Must be well reveiewed, with preference to those who participate here. Also will consider ladies I have met at M&G's, and have a chance to talk with first...
I couldnt have dreamed of a more memorable 1st time, and would not change a thing. She has become an ATF for me too, though I cant see her as often as I like due to her donation amount being a little high for me on a regular basis.
My criteria is relatively unchanged. I still only see well-reviewed SPs, and prefer SPs who I can contact by email. I also like it if she has a webpage, but that has become less important, and is not really a deciding factor for me anymore.