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Re: Speaking for all of us????
keystonekid 114 Reviews 1091 reads
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Ditto here lungman.  I like variety in my life, period.

Lungman2778 reads

Just wanted to apologize to everyone......for the
TIRADE.....i've been on....the last couple of days......i respect each and everyone......of your opinion's and comment's.....and to all the provider's out there.....i think i can speak for all the Gentlemen......on this site.............
I think we all would like to have one of you....
as our very own........i sure know....i would!..
it will probably never happen......but a guy can dream......can't he.......the best to you all!!!

The Newbie Mod1474 reads

it is good to see that you are finally expressing some measure of respect for others.  You should be grateful for the restraint that others have shown in response to your spiteful replies, I know that I am.  I am also mindful that this isn't the first time you've come back to apologize for what you have posted.

At the risk of re-kindling you ire, may I make a few suggestions that might help you better get along here:

1)  It is good board etiquette, not just this board, but discussion boards in general, to use only 1 username/alias per topic.  This helps everyone keep track of the discussion and to whom they are replying.  Since the content of your posts clearly revealed your identity, I chose to let the messages through.  It would appear that the moderator of the Erotic Highway chose to do the same.

2)  Lose that chip on your shoulder!!!  I'm not sure if I've ever seen someone who just "wanted some feedback" so eager to take offense when feedback was given.

3)  If you want a simple answer, ask a simple question.  It is hard to fault people for responding to your query in the context in which you posed it.

4)  Remember, this is a public board, everyone gets their say, within the rules.  I had to laugh when you tried to define the purpose of this board, and suggested that the long term posters should move to an S&M board.  Wow, 20-some posts over 3 months, broke your hobby cherry, and now you are bucking for my job. LOL

5)  Please don't presume to speak for others.  In this case, you don't speak for me - it is not my desire to have a provider as my very own, I enjoy  variety too much to have only one. ;-)

6)  You are right, paying for sex is not rocket science.  What you still need to learn, hobbying is not merely paying for sex.

I hope you will continue to learn from the board, but a tirade like this will not be tolerated in the future.

jazz32

-- Modified on 7/21/2008 9:38:38 PM

you show why you are the mod and thank you as well for helping to end the bs. You show how well you have self control with posts like those.
You are the best Jazz...

Lungman/JL. whomever you are, I appreciate the gesture but please do not assume that you speak for me. We all hobby for different reasons. I don't know what your reason is but I sure as heck know what mine is.  I'm not looking for a provider for my very own. I have a wife and a family and a world full of headaches. I hobby to get away from all of that I absolutely adore my two ATF's and see them as often as I can find the time. That being said, what I have with both of them is a great business relationship and friendship. I am not looking for anymore than that and, quite frankly neither are they.

Your motives are of course your business. I think you will gain a better understanding of what most providers and clients are looking for as you read here.  Try to keep an open mind.

-- Modified on 7/20/2008 4:12:54 PM

Ditto here lungman.  I like variety in my life, period.

Please never, ever assume or think that you can speak for me... You are way out there, dude.

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