I contacted a stunning provider... really outta my league... but besides the fee, she asked that I reimburse the room charges... she implied that the room was just for our appointment... but I'll always wonder if she told every guy that!
skb
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I Know how I have done it on vacation, but I don't want to go in and say I need a room for two hours here is my ccard. I live in the sticks so it may not be as easy as it sounds
Well, you are not renting it for two hours, you are renting it until check out time the next day. When you are done with the room you just leave. Honestly, the hotel doesn't care how long you stay there as long as you pay.
You are going to be asked to put a credit card down as a security deposit but if you pay cash for the room the card will not be charged.
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Just don't fall for the old trick of letting the provider keep the room for the rest of the night after you are gone. LOL Unless, of course, you know her very well.
I contacted a stunning provider... really outta my league... but besides the fee, she asked that I reimburse the room charges... she implied that the room was just for our appointment... but I'll always wonder if she told every guy that!
skb
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It's not unusual for the lady to ask for reimbursement if she is just traveling to see you. My ATF and I do this all the time. She is low volume and only sees me on the days that we arrange to meet. Though she never ends up sleeping in the room the offer is there if she doesn't feel like driving back home. Obviously I trust her and would not recommend this with just anyone.
Been my experience if the lady is using the room for her in call she usually pays, an outcall is simple, she's coming to you. If you want to tip a little extra for the room the lady will be most appreciative.
Since I do not have an incall, nor will I ever get one, (DC is waayy too hot an Llll EEE area for that), I offer to get a hotel room for "local" clients. They reimburse me for part of the cost. As I am a low volume provider, the room is not used for any other appointments.
As with anything in life, not everyone is upfront about what they do. Read reviews and trust your instincts.
Kari~~
This happened to me! Very ignorant of me I know - but that is one reason I only seek incall appointments now. Lesson learned!
I fell for it once too. The room was 150. When I got my bill the next month the extra room charges were another 325! What a dumbass I was!
Oh, WOW! I never thought of that!
skb
I hope you got the money back. If not, I hope you put it in her review!
I agree with Sweet Jane- I do not know of ANY established provider who would have a client secure the room for her to use as her incall- that is absolutely an invitation for trouble!!
Just from the flip side of the coin: If a client has the room reserved in his name then that means he has unlimited access to the room- not conducive to a good night's sleep if you are a provider entertaining hourly clients. Any provider with any experience would try to discourage a client from leaving any "trails" of his behavior- especially if he is new to the hobby!
Next, and more importantly- if someone else reserves the room then:
A- you have no time to "prepare" the room before his arrival
B- you have no idea what you are walking into
C- as a provider, why would you want to remain in a room with someone else's name registered on it?
The only way I would EVER entertain in a room that belongs to a client sis if I had agreed to an outcall to his location- Most established providers screen outcall MUCH different than they screen incalls-
And lastly on the subject or "reimbursement" for a room- that is completely out of line, the most you should have ever agreed to was the stipulated donation for an outcall- because in essence she was going to "your location''
I can't help but notice the style and mannerisms of providers changing- I guess I'm glad I'm not mainstream in the US any longer! Gentlemen, even newbie's- you deserve better, just look for it. As I said I agree with Sweet Jane, and echo what she said: That is awful!
No Review, this is going back in the history book a little, before my TER days.
And no, never could find that Witch the next month when I got the CC bill. But you can bet your ass I will never do that again, is the first thing that pops to mind whenever the subject comes up. LMAO!
I always let the provider keep the room however I give her the money so the room is in her name...{in my dealings with some non Ter providers or amateurs I propositioned}... Every TER provider I have seen so far had her own incall..But it might be that is what I am looking for.
I am always wary that even if I pay cash something obscure might happen and a letter might come to my address thanking me for my stay.
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