I'am a newbie and was concern about stds from oral sex. Is there any thing that I should be aware of on my first date. Alot of the providers do bbbj and daty without condems.
You can search messages. Click on the search messages blue box above the first post . In the subject put in STDs, and for days put in 360. That will give you a years supply of discussion on the subject. Good luck.
Sorry, I couldn’t resist a little humor based on your spelling error.
Okay, to seriously answer your posting. The only sure fire method of not attracting an STD from a provider is NOT to hobby in the first place. (okay, not a reality). If you are worried about getting an STD from a provider giving you a BBBJ, then tell her you prefer a covered BJ. If she doesn’t like the taste of latex (or any other flavored condom), and you are still concerned about contracting an STD, then you are shit out of luck and you need to see someone else who is willing to adhere to your wishes.
With respect to you eating a provider out, a condom will NOT help you here (couldn’t resist again). If you are worried about getting an STD from eating pussy, then DON'T eat pussy. Hobbying has risks and the possibility of getting an STD from performing oral on a provider is one of them.
But you should understand that you are far less likely to get an STD from a provider than you would be if you picked up the local slut at the corner bar at 3:00AM. The ladies who provide (at least the ones who are well reviewed on TER), are much more aware of safety and precaution with respect to STD's and take fewer inherent risks.
Here's more free advice. If you dwell on all the inherent risks of hobbying (STD's, LE traps, monetary rip offs, bad service, poor attitudes, etc.) you will NOT enjoy yourself and will waste your hard earned money. Yes, you should be cautious and should have your eyes wide open when making your appointment. But if you do your homework on TER, most of your concerns should be alleviated.
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Hobbying is like dabbling in the stock market. It all involves risk, but your choices determine how much risk you assume.
From least to most....
Zero risk - don't hobby at all
Slight risk - hobby, but everything is covered
Moderate risk - BBBJ and DATY, all else covered
Just plain stupid - No cover at all.
Yes, there is a chance that an STD could be transfrerred via oral contact. However, the risk of that happening is less than the risk involved in uncovered FS. If you are not comfortable taking that chance, that is your choice to make. Don't DATY, or you can use what is called a dental dam - you can get one at any AIDS project, and some drug stores carry them. And feel free to state your preference for a CBJ if it will make you feel more comfortable. I promise you, she will not be offended.