Slowly I step, inch by inch....
Generally, if the gal has multiple rates for things like FBSM or FS or FS with GFE, dinner date, etc etc then when you make the appointment just be clear what you are booking for.
I'd like to book and hour of GFE on Tuesday at 8:30.
Or I was wondering if you were free for 4 hours On Friday the 12th for a Dinner and Dessert date.
So she will know what you want and you will know what you are booking. Simply place the approriate donation in the envelope.
In the link see my post about my etiquette. Sometimes when I return from freshening up (even if I just gos "wash my hands" to give her a minute of privacy, I will ask if everything is OK. That way I now she has checked and is satisfied with the envelope.
Don't over think things R70. Once she has the envelope you will know if she is comfortable. If things don't seem comfy, after you are naked you can ask her pretty much anything.
If you want something special (Greek, roleplay, etc.) just ask, she will let you know if all is well. Once you have done this a few times, you will be comfortable.
-- Modified on 7/14/2008 1:40:10 PM
Okay, yet another newbie question on the infamous envelope....
Assume I've read a provider's website and I adhere to their stated preferences for envelope location, open vs. sealed, marked vs. unmarked, etc.
Also assume a 100% intent to do the right thing and have the correct amount inside the envelope.
My dilemma is in trying to decipher specifically what is supposed to be inside. There are various providers with unclear donation pages. They list different amounts for incall and outcall. There are sometimes specific rates listed for dinner dates, touring rates, different durations, etc. There are also inconsistencies between some providers websites and things they mention in their ads on the regional boards. It seems like there could always be planned dates or scenarios that don't fall neatly into one of the items with a specific listed cost. What to do?
I'm NOT asking this in relation to any particular provider, or in any way to complain. From other threads, it seems like some ladies discretely check the envelope near the beginning of the date, while others don't even consider it until you've walked out the door. I just don't know the procedure on ensuring I get it right when I can't actually ask. I don't want to risk offending by making an error.
Thanks for any and all advice.
recent ad or posting, go by what she has on her site for the proper gift.
If the site (or ads or postings) is not specific enough (For example, she list one and two hour donations, but not three hours and you are having a three hour.) then feel free to contact her directly about this but do be discreet.
In other words, don't say: "I see you charge $250 for one hour and $450 for two hours so would a three hour be $650?"
Do say: "Would the extra cost for the third hour be the same as the extra cost for the second hour?"
In the first example, you would be expressing a specific amount of money. That's a no-no to most providers.
In the latter example, you are implying a certain cost without saying it. That is much less likely to turn her off.
Hope this helps.
Listing specific rates for in call vs out call, dinner dates etc seems pretty clear to me. I'm assuming that you know the difference between in call and out call and I'm sure you know weather you are taking her to dinner or not. As far as local ads go I would always let her know when you contact her that you are responding to her ad. The rate shown in a recent ad would supersede anything on her website.
Don't over complicate things. It is always possible to subtly clarify any confusion without mentioning the actual dollar donation. If you are looking for multiple hours simply tell her how many and she will respond by telling you what rate(s) apply.
-- Modified on 7/14/2008 1:18:57 PM
Slowly I step, inch by inch....
Generally, if the gal has multiple rates for things like FBSM or FS or FS with GFE, dinner date, etc etc then when you make the appointment just be clear what you are booking for.
I'd like to book and hour of GFE on Tuesday at 8:30.
Or I was wondering if you were free for 4 hours On Friday the 12th for a Dinner and Dessert date.
So she will know what you want and you will know what you are booking. Simply place the approriate donation in the envelope.
In the link see my post about my etiquette. Sometimes when I return from freshening up (even if I just gos "wash my hands" to give her a minute of privacy, I will ask if everything is OK. That way I now she has checked and is satisfied with the envelope.
Don't over think things R70. Once she has the envelope you will know if she is comfortable. If things don't seem comfy, after you are naked you can ask her pretty much anything.
If you want something special (Greek, roleplay, etc.) just ask, she will let you know if all is well. Once you have done this a few times, you will be comfortable.
-- Modified on 7/14/2008 1:40:10 PM
If you word it correctly. I have asked ladies before, "You only have one and two hour dates listed on your site. What do I need to bring for a four hour date"? or "What will I need for three hours of your time"?
Good luck
Okay.
I was taking the prohibition against financial discussion beforehand pretty literally. Now I get what you are saying, which seems to be that if one is discreet and circumspect, it can be addressed if needed.
Thanks for the input, guys!