but don't give up just yet.
Agencies tend to be the most liberal regarding references and personal information.
Try calling up some of your local agencies and explain as nicely as possible what your situation is.
Sooner or later one of them will take a chance on you and when that happens, ask them (or the provider you see) if they would be willing to give you a reference in the future.
In time, things should start to get easier.
Best of luck.
I've never met with a provider before. I just recently called up a couple of girls and they both turned me down because 1)I have never met with a provider, 2)I work at home so I cant give them a company name/number. What can I do to get the ball rolling? Thank you in advance.
try visiting one that is fairly new who is looking for new clients. write a review.
just because they might be more willing to take the risk... being how they don't have too much business from clients with references.
Another thing... you should just keep trying; there are girls that are more liberal with references (if they get a good vibe from you).
Good luck!
xo
Jaydenn-
but don't give up just yet.
Agencies tend to be the most liberal regarding references and personal information.
Try calling up some of your local agencies and explain as nicely as possible what your situation is.
Sooner or later one of them will take a chance on you and when that happens, ask them (or the provider you see) if they would be willing to give you a reference in the future.
In time, things should start to get easier.
Best of luck.
You could sign up with Date-check or one of the other reference sites until you get some reviews under your belt.
If you can't do that, go with agency girls to start with. Also, explain your situation to the girls you talk to and maybe they will accept some other form of verification.
In any case, good luck. Oh, since you don't mention your age, that might be a factor in your denials. Many ladies don't like to see guys under 30 to 35. That is just FYI.
Swim
I think the AMP's are most liberal with who they'll see.....plenty available
I recommend my first timers join www.roomservice2000.com or www.date-check.com if they want to see me. Then, I deduct that cost of membership from our first adventure and I'll give them a reference for their next provider.
I strongly believe in the verification services. Gents say they don't want their info OUT there but darlings....when you have to give ALL of that to every provider you see, you only have to give it ONCE to a verification service. And it makes it so easy and quick for us to verify you.
I will not accept a reference from a brand new provider with no reviews or Craig's list girls.
Also, many agencies will not give references to independent providers. Some will, but most will not.
Whatever you choose, be careful. I know you all want to play when you are IN the mood but it's still best to plan ahead. You won't get in trouble that way. I'm sure any good gal can still get you in the mood right away.
Smiles and Soft Kisses,
Anneke