Newbie - FAQ

Re: Can't tell her what I need?
shudaknownbetter 1931 reads
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I agree, get VIP & read the full reviews before making the first contact.  ONLY call ladies who offer what you want.  That's what TER is about.

Once the action starts, I'm often asked "What do you like?"  It's ok to answer either where you want to start or ideas for a finish...  then, let her guide you through the process.  

If you say "Everything"...  it's up to her.
skb

ragal2315 reads

Again, new to this, I keep hearing and reading that "you can't talk about sex"...Well - I want to get my money's worth and would need to tell her what I want to do for the next hour....What's the point otherwise. I don't want HER to dictate or choose what's being done or not done. How and when do I tell her what/not to do if "we can't talk about sex acts"....?

Then you can see all the reviews, and the ladies profiles. You can choose a lady who offers what you are looking for. Then, after you are in the room, and the "business" has been taken care of, feel free to talk about whatever you wish. You might start by asking the lady what she likes, and let the conversation go where it will from there. Just be respectful, and a gentleman.

A lady's reviews will give an accurate assessment of what is on the menu and what is not.  Once you are at the appointment and you have established a rapor with her you will be free to discuss what you like. Any good provider will want to make you happy but I would be careful about going into any appointment thinking that you are going to "dictate" anything. The lady will be in control of the appointment and if you try to do anything to make her feel that she is not things will most likely come to a fairly abrupt end.

shudaknownbetter1932 reads

I agree, get VIP & read the full reviews before making the first contact.  ONLY call ladies who offer what you want.  That's what TER is about.

Once the action starts, I'm often asked "What do you like?"  It's ok to answer either where you want to start or ideas for a finish...  then, let her guide you through the process.  

If you say "Everything"...  it's up to her.
skb

When someone sends me an email with an appointment I always like to hear about their "fantasies". Now, discussing what a lady will or will not do before the date is a no no but emailing her your "fantasies" is not. It's just a story ...... right :)

So, to put it into perspective if a gentleman tells me he has always had a fantasy of his boss seducing him maybe He shows up and I'm in a business suit and we role play and I, his boss, seduce him.

Lastly, find a lady whose reviews reflect the kind of date you would like to have and go from there. I am sure you can figure it out.

~Rae

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