We are living our dreams and helping others realize theirs. Simply put, we rock! I don't like/agree with everything about TER's rating system as it pertains to BDSM, and it would be nice to be able to post 2 ads a week (one for escort & one for BDSM). But, I don't see that happening so I make what's possible work for me.
xoxo,
Rani
I find it hard to believe that TER members can not search for what they desire here since many providers are also, FS Adult Entertainers. I posted a BDSM & it counts as a real provider ad, so you can only utilize one post a week. What is your feelings in regards to BDSM/ESCORT entertainers here on TER?
geeez, i am trying to find this perfect combo on bdsm/escort in Los Angeles, had no luck so far.
We are living our dreams and helping others realize theirs. Simply put, we rock! I don't like/agree with everything about TER's rating system as it pertains to BDSM, and it would be nice to be able to post 2 ads a week (one for escort & one for BDSM). But, I don't see that happening so I make what's possible work for me.
xoxo,
Rani
...also if I may add, that Dominas that provide BDSM/Escort services are the gateway for those that might not have known that THAT was just what they needed to achieve satisfaction one way or the other. We are ALL evolving creatures, and we need to evolve to meet the needs of our clientele(submissive or not). As long as what we do as Dominas/Escort is organic to our core , authentic to the session/scene, and is fulfilling to the thirst that needs to be quenched for our subs, why not EVOLVE?
Ok, could not resist.
But it is tough, as TER is just not built around anything but pure GFE experiences. All others are forced to fit into this environment.
Personally I would love to find some BDSM/Escort options here in NYC. But as stated, very hard to find on TER.
I agree with others who have said on this and previous occasions that TER is structured for GFE or sometimes BDSM.
Since my personal feeling is that a BDSM/Escort session is about the ultimate, I wish it were easier to find ladies who enjoy that sort of thing. It can be done, but currently, you have to find a lady who is listed as Escort/S&M and then read through all of the reviews. That can be really time-consuming and not always terribly helpful.
Sensual dominance and fetish play can be quite different from wanting a mistress in boots and a corset. And many of us would like to be able to mix a GFE and S&M experience together.
It's just damn near impossible to identify the ladies who are into that.
Thanks for bringing it up Ms. Patricia.
BDSM/Escorts (aka Bizaare ladies) are more OPENLY seen in EU than here in the states.. There's areas for them to advertise and when one contacts them, there's no confusion nor haggling. Personally, I wish that there was a section around in the states where those that engage in such can adverstise and not be mixed in with those that don't..
I was surprised to find just two reviews of Dante Posh. Gentlemen--Dante Posh knows about Europe because she travels there frequently as literally a Mistress of the Universe. I remember her when she was just beginning in the scene. She was striking then--tall, dark, athletic. An amazing dominatrix. And very literate as well. I remember not only the first session with her--me strung up naked as she circled me, all in leather and high-heeled boots, inflicting pain until I nearly fainted--but also an amazing brunch at the Essex Street Market--quite literate conversation among about six of us. Gentlemen--she is a real find. See her.
The reason why there are limited reviews here is because 1) the two that posted here never asked me if they could do it in the first place and 2) the gentlemen that did ask me, were told to not do so, or was suggested to do the review at a location that would be much more appropriate to the content and audience.. I found this site I think after the reviews were posted, and per advice, I registered to be able to get some sort of control over the profile. Of course, this didn't do much - still inaccurate info on site - a great thing I have my own website, otherwise..
Among personal reasons, I much prefer, if someone is going to talk about a time with me, to not have to fill out a form here that asks them information that they would have to end up guessing on, since the information the site is asking didn't apply to them and must be filled prior to being submitted for review.. For example, if you did a foot session with me, if the only thing you wanted to focus on was my feet, and you insist that I am covered up during the entire session, why should you be asked if my cooter was shaved or not?
In a way, guessing takes down the review and its accuracy and honesty.. This is just my opinion, of course..
So, it is what it is.. I'm not too upset - there's other places where one can read a review about me, and well, with my years in this scene and the fetish/bdsm genre as a whole, I think I can safely say that I'm already vetted as being a legitimate natural dominant, a perverse fetishist and overall, an understandings individual to those that like that kinky sorta thing (smile). But I do thank you Captyve for your continued support.. I hope to catch up with you one day soon..
Dante Posh
I'm not sure this completely answers your question since it seems you may specifically be concerned with being able to post both BDSM and Escort ads in a given week, but I definitely feel it's very hard to find someone on TER who truly provides both types of services. A large % of reviewed ladies have "S&M" checked as available when that's not at all what they do. It definitely seems like it should be easier to search for this combo.
If you do provide both and are in NYC.
Why couldn't you be in NYC...
The TER limits us to escort reviews, and scores are adjusted to this service. S&M scores should be taken into consideration. Thanks for the positive responses.
I just wish it was in fact easier for gents to find out that I am genuinely into some serious fetish play. I have found a handful, & they never fail to be impressed by my level of experience & interest. Unfortunately they don't all post reviews, which makes it difficult to research properly.
Thank you for this post. I am a "Hybrid Domme" a term I learned from Naughty Allure a retired provider in Las Vegas. She described the term as a provider who provides both GFE/FS along with a professional BDSM experience. Many of the Pro Dommes I know only advertise a non FS experience because they are lesbians and have no sexual interest in their clients or falsely believe they are not 'sex workers' and safe from LE.
Sensual Dominance and role play are fun and my preference when playing. I own a whip but have never used it and don't plan on it. But it looks great hanging on the wall.
Ms. Serene
I am very sensual and love everyone to leave 'happy', but adore being in control! I find that men who make decisions all day are relieved to let me take control in the bedroom. I find nothing more exciting than a man lightly bound and beneath me, mine to tease and please.
xoClair Jordan
Sensual Dominance and role play are fun and my preference when playing. I own a whip but have never used it and don't plan on it. But it looks great hanging on the wall.
Ms. Serene
once a provider gets her first review TER makes the rest of us fill out the entire form again and again and again but they will never change anything. So, if in her first review the client checks that she is into s&m, whether she is or not, it is forever there unless she can get them to change it.
No matter how many guys after the first check it one way or the other, on any of the bio catagories. it will never change.
I ran into this a few years back with a provider that had stopped offering BBBJ, now had I read her current reviews I would've found this out but since I had seen her the previous year I didn't bother. And yes I know that was my fault.
I even had a review rejected once saying that it wasn't graphic enough. I changed not one single word and resubmitted and, I know hard to believe, it was accepted.
So my point here is that like in our public lives the government is responsible for many of the problems we have today, TER is responsible for many of the problems that are found on this post as well as on other posts.
There are those of us who happily provide both sensual domme as well as gfe services. I never considered myself one or the other, I always thoroughly enjoyed both and bringing the two together just seemed as natural as getting up in the morning.
:?)
Grace
Experiencing this combo is relaxing, fun and exhilarating!
My opinion is that while the structure of TER can make it a difficult to search, we providers and reviewers could make better use of what TER provides. Some providers are tagged 'SM' by reviewers when the provider has no interest. That's the fault of the reviewer. Also, I have been on my second or third visit with a provider when it comes up that she loves an FS/BDSM session, yet could not tell from her site or initial screening/conversation. (I understand there may be reasons for this with which I am it familiar. )
Lastly, if you are in Chicago and provide an BDSM/escort experience, please PM me.