what is a DFK?
This will be my first time ever visiting a provider.
1st of: Should i mention to her that i am a newbie and am quite inexperienced.
2nd of: How is the hotel fee managed on incalls? Was it included in the fee for the provider, most of the posts said 2 call system. Seems like a in and out system?
The review (just joined vip today)after my 5 days crash course on this site. I'm really sorry if i did not understand this. Any help will be greatly appreciated
sincerly
-Ed-
Sure, you can tell her you're a newbie. You might be a little nervous, and her knowing this will help her understand why.
On incalls, she takes care of the room unless it's otherwise stated on her site. It's included in her rate.
Two call system: You call her once and get general directions to where she is. The second time you call her, you get her exact location.
Have fun!
If she is a well reviewed provider, meaning she has been around for sometime, she maybe able to help you with your inexperience if you let her know when you meet her. But you still need to do your homework and read her reviews before meeting her.
Incall refers to her place, meaning you go to her location. It can be an apartment, hotel, motel, condo, residential home, etc. that she works out of. If it is an hotel or motel, then the room fee is included in her "companionship time" fee. It would be her responsibility, not your. Outcall refers to your place, meaning she will come to your location. If it is an hotel or motel, then you are responsible for the room fee.
What sweetamanda said about the 2 call system is pretty accurate, 1st call for general location, 2nd call for exact apartment number, room number, etc.
Afterwards, write a review to help your fellow hobbyists and future newbies.
Goodluck & be safe Ed.
Hey guys thanks for the advice.
Set me so much more at ease.
As Amanda said, yes tell her you are new. If you're anything like I was, you'll be nervous as hell. If the lady knows this, she'll know how to relax you. Hell, I still get nervous when meeting a new friend, probably always will. You'll be fine.
Just let it happen and enjoy.
I also find myself nervous when I meet a new provider. But being greeted with a DFK immediately sets me at ease. 
I've been very fortunate so far. Most of these ladies really know what to do to settle you into complete comfort. Ya' gotta love 'em.
1) Yes, mention your newbie status. A good GFE lady will take extra care in showing you a passionate time.
2) If the lady is doing an incall at a hotel, she has paid for the room and most likely will be seeing other guys before and/or after you. The two call system is to help protect the lady by minimizing the time her exact location is known (in case you get taken prisoner by LE).
Make sure never ever to discuss sex or something like, "what is the cost?". Just put the donation in an envelope and lay it on a table, don't give it in her hand. Just imagine that she is your girl friend and let things progress naturally. This will keep you safe from Law Enforcement.