This has been discussed before, but for everyone it's different!

Escort & BDSM = Sensual Domina

Honestly, the majority of real Mistresses do not allow ejaculation.  I would say anything that can be described as sensual domination, which results in allowing the gent to release.  My ATF is pussy worship, or DATY!


Forced to please me & I prefer multiple O's!  lol

Madame Patricia is correct that it is different for everyone

Having experience as a pro domme, I am  really "into" anything that does not cause pain.  This can include CBT, bondage, ropes, sensory deprivation, cuffs, servitude, training, etc.  Sexual contact has not been part of that deal and if he deserves a happy ending, he can worship my body as he gets himself off.  This is not how EVERY session is ended, yet is common.

What my client would enjoy is really what matters.  For myself, I am not into pain, yet am willing to do most of those things that spin my client's world.  Thus the need for a discussion prior to sessions for newbies.

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To me it depends on whose ad I'm looking at and where I am reading it.

If it's a typical pro dom on a pro dom website focused exclusively on domination then I think she is only referring to BDSM activities with some sexiness thrown in to make it interesting. I could be wrong but I have never thought of it as a buzzword for allowing some kind of release.

If it's somebody like Madame Patricia or TamsenC referring to BDSM on an escort website then my imagination runs wild. Still not a buzzword for release though. As both of them have said it's more about a submissive male assuming his rightful place and giving his Mistress the pleasure she requires.

Ball busting can be very sensual, and if she gets you off in the end its a bonus. Had a session a few years back in NY where the domme had me totally restrained and her kicks to my balls varied for the entire 2 hours from severe to very soft, and the session ended with her giving me some nice kicks with one foot while the other foot was standing on my dick and the motion of her raising her leg and kicking made me explode.