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Re: gifts
Bostonguy57 48 Reviews 1495 reads
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If she has a website with a wish list check it out. My ATF loves scented candles so that's what I generally bring. Sweets are good if they like sweets, Wine if she likes wine. Books and CD's are good as well but you really need to know a bit about the lady for items like that. Avoid flowers at all costs. None of these ladies want you attracting attention as you walk through the lobby.

The fun of giving a gift is in the personal nature of it. I could always put more cash in the envelope but picking up a little something and putting the thought into it is, for me at least, a much more personal gesture.

I was wondering if anyone had any gift ideas for a provider besides the obvious I.e. jewelry

shudaknownbetter1409 reads

I often bring candles for my Favs.  One likes sugar free mints, which I place with the donation.  I've brought small trinkets for Favs after I've gotten to know then...  inexpensive but special because of their background.  

If you don't know enough, stick to candles.
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If she has a website with a wish list check it out. My ATF loves scented candles so that's what I generally bring. Sweets are good if they like sweets, Wine if she likes wine. Books and CD's are good as well but you really need to know a bit about the lady for items like that. Avoid flowers at all costs. None of these ladies want you attracting attention as you walk through the lobby.

The fun of giving a gift is in the personal nature of it. I could always put more cash in the envelope but picking up a little something and putting the thought into it is, for me at least, a much more personal gesture.

I always take a candle set.  I get them at WM for 10 bucks, two large ones and three small ones in jars.

Have never had a complaint.  Girls love candles.

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and she probably wouldn't complain then either.  My point is that it really is the thought that counts, so long as the gift isn't super wierd.

I usually bring some nice chocolates.

I would like to bring candles, but I'm afraid I wouldn't pick the right scents.

There are also packages of assorted massage oils. I've brought these on few occasions. The ladies not only liked them, but made for a nice addition to the evening.

In my snooping around to get started in the hobby, I noticed that many of the ladies actually have a "wish list" of gifts they enjoy. If a provider has a site, I'd start there -- or as an alternate just ask if there is anything she likes! It may ruin the surprise, but at least you'd know you brought her a gift she'd enjoy.

For my new friend, I found out what kinds of books she enjoys and got her something she had not yet read. It seemed to go over pretty well.

For my first hobby encounter, I brought the lady a nice, small picture frame. I picked it up at Pier 1 or someplace like that. As it was the first gift she received from a client, she was delighted and most appreciative.
As you develop relationships with certain ladies, you'll get to know them a bit better and can make more personal gift selections. Sometimes I find that simple, small things related to a laugh we shared are very much appreciated.

Toys, xxx-rated videos and sexy shoes. I have listed them on my website so gentlemen know what I like. Now candles are nice and what lady doesn't like perfume. A gift card is always easy. You are a very sweet guy to be thinking of a gift for your lady and she will feel that way to.  Kisses Haley

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