feel "safer" with married guys; less risk of unwanted behavior.
Wish I was in Atlanta, Rae has some awesome reviews.
Just wondering... is this their way to start the conversation and get to know me? Or is this the launchpad for them to say, "What is it that you want from your wife that you aren't getting that I can provide for you?" That would be cool if I could give them my wish list. But I would feel like such a schmuck if I said, "Yep I'm a prick...I'm married and I am here with you. Wedding vows? What wedding vows?" So I usually say I am divorced. When I ask them back if they are married or have a boyfriend, suddenly the getting to know you conversation gets cold like it is off limits to ask this question to a provider. Like I am getting too personal and unprofessional in our relationship, or maybe like I am auditioning for the position. But they started it. Am I missing out? Anybody fessed up out there to being married and got better service?
but you can also read previous responses to this question.
And I've never had a problem with it. I've never asked a lady if she was married. I figure, if she wants to volunteer that information, she will. A couple have. In fact, I even met one of the husbands one time. That was a strange situation, and a little nerve racking.
One particular lady and I have shared a lot of our personal lives over the several times we have been together, including husband, wife, kids. I wouldn't be a bit concerned. If she asks, tell her.
You know I had a client once who came to see me and all he wanted was a good bbbj. No kissing no gfe no sex no nothing. His reasons? He absolutely loves his wife she's great in bed but she will NOT suck his cock. All he wanted was a fantastic BJ. So sometimes guys DO have a list of things they want. Sometimes they only want something specific. I don't really care if a guy is married or not BUT I will say that married men tend to be better clients because they are LESS clingy, they are less apt to "fall" for you realistically and that's about it for me. Usually they are considered by escorts to be safer because they are considered to be in a monogamous relationship. That is jut my two cents.
However, I really hate answering personal questions about myself because most of what you need to know is found on my website. You don't need to know about my family, whether I have a boyfriend or anything. Why would you want to know? I have a boundary I like to keep set and that's based on my comfort level with each individual that I meet.
~Rae
feel "safer" with married guys; less risk of unwanted behavior.
Wish I was in Atlanta, Rae has some awesome reviews.
I've been "hobbying" for sometime and NEVER been asked if I'm married. I would find that unusual and inappropriate. I suspect most hobbyists are married and the providers are able to tell pretty easily who is and who isn't.
and finding out why I am being sought out. The answers I have received, and by no means have I twisted anyones arm on getting were:
1) Wife won't give me BJ's
2) Don't get any intimacy from my wife because:
-She is frigid
-She is ill
-she has her own boyfriends
3) Need a little variety
4) Just want to be touched again by a woman
5) Just want to feel like a man again
When I find these things out, I know exactly how to treat him in my appointments. Most of you think that we are all looking to steal you away, when that couldn't be more further from the truth.
We just want to learn a little about you to make your visit with us that much more enjoyable.
If by finding these things out I can hear a few more sighs and ohhh's from them when I do my job right, he is more happier when the appointment ends.
As for asking US personal questions, too many times in the past we have met individuals who have taken it upon themselves to assume the actions which have happened between us was MORE than a client/provider relationship, and began stalking and harassing some endangering their lives. I'm not saying all, but some individuals have done this. In time when a provider and client have seen each other long enough, there may come a point where freedom of speech between each would be easier, and more trusted.
Again...you may think us asking you if your married has anything to do with invasion of your privacy, but it has MORE to do with the type of appointment you receive from us.
IMHO
xoxo
Lusty