Actually, a few catastrophically bad experiences. I know, I know, everyone thinks they've had it bad whenever things go south in a relationships, but believe me when I say I'm terribly embittered about the whole deal and would not want to try and engage in it again. I do appreciate the advice you are giving me, and it is sound advice... it's just that, well, maybe in time I'll move on.
It's been a little over one and a half years since I've been single, and as mentioned before, there will just be times where I just want to sit on a couch and hold another person for awhile. Nothing more than that.
After coming off several disastrous relationships, I've more or less given up on developing any sort of further commitments. I'm still fairly young though (mid-20s), and nothing is concrete.
Recently, there's really only one thing that I've been missing by not being in a relationship, and that's just simply getting to hold another human being. Just cuddling, I suppose.
Now, I am a complete newbie, haven't seen a provider, etc etc. I have no illusions that a provider would particular care what I would do in an appointment as long as I provided gratuity. What I'm wondering is whether this is a particularly odd desire?
Thanks for reading.
No, it's not.
I'm 27, been single a while and that is certainly a variable pleasurable thing to have!
I'd love to have someone to cuddle with, even if - for some reason - sex was off the table!
As a life long cuddling fan, I spend more than my share of time in a session doing the cuddle and it is just great.
Most gals are big on it also so feel free to ask.
Cuddling is not an unusual request at all though I would recommend you stick with GFE providers. The "one and done" girls who offer 30 minute appointments and lollipop specials on Craig's List are not your best bet if you are looking for cuddle time. Stick with well reviewed ladies. You may also find that the snuggling part of the session gets better after repeat visits with a girl that you click with.
I wouldn’t assume that all providers will be into cuddling as much as you want. The Pretty Woman mentality still exists for a lot of providers and they consider cuddling as intimate as kissing, maybe even more. But some GFE’s are such good cuddlers you’ll swear you’re with a girlfriend. You can usually figure out who is right for you from the more detailed reviews or from reading her website.
I'm very reluctant to initiate cuddling. I don't want to come off as too much like a girlfriend, "lay here and HOLD me, goddamit!" I'm more easygoing. If he initiates it, I'm into cuddling.
However, I have to be careful because sometimes I've had several orgasms and am ready to go to sleep! Maybe I should have my fellows set an alarm clock just in case?
GFE experience. Most 20 year olds have not refined this process. Better to stick with a more mature 25 and up woman.
However, age is a number and there could be exceptions.
GFE true...I think in most cases it is what you make it. Your experience can and should be what you want it to be. Its different with each client, and you should get out of your time with the lady what you are interested in. Read reviews and that should give you a better idea of what to expect.
Many providers say they are a GFE but to find one that understands the true essence of the experience may not be that common. Those that do have rave reviews and not just about the alphabet soup of positions and their looks. To really be able to make a connection with a guy in just minutes takes talent. You are looking for intimacy and it is out there but it may take a while to find an ATF. Good luck and do a lot of research.
You are young. Have a few bad experiences with relationships. Giving up on them. And now you want to see an escort for the first time.
Physical intimacy (sex or cuddling) is a great motivator to get out and date the ladies. Pay for it ONCE, and you will be hooked. Next thing you know, you are 65, retired, broke, and alone.
Think hard before you go down this road. Once you have gone to the Dark Side, there is no going back.
Actually, a few catastrophically bad experiences. I know, I know, everyone thinks they've had it bad whenever things go south in a relationships, but believe me when I say I'm terribly embittered about the whole deal and would not want to try and engage in it again. I do appreciate the advice you are giving me, and it is sound advice... it's just that, well, maybe in time I'll move on.
It's been a little over one and a half years since I've been single, and as mentioned before, there will just be times where I just want to sit on a couch and hold another person for awhile. Nothing more than that.
I don't think it's odd at all. Some guys think the world of overnighters, or dinner dates, both of which are about companionship as much as the "naughty stuff".