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If that was my house I would have a designated parking space for providers!

ilovesandiego2696 reads

Thanks so much for the help thus far!

What is SCASP? A google search returns a .com but it actually leads to SDASP. Is that the right place?

I got a question, ladies I'd like input too!

I feel that I'd be MOST comfortable with an outcall to my place where I actually live. Being on my turf makes me feel MUCH better.

Firstly for the guys, is this crazy? I would feel out of place elsewhere, but could do it.

For the ladies, would you ever NOT do this? And would you feel more out of place than at a hotel?

I'm sure that the moment a woman meets me comfortability is at a high, based on experience and feedback from girlfriends and peoples responses in general.

Thanks guys!

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RinaTakami2116 reads

Incall or outcall, it shouldn't be crazy with a well reviewed and reputable provider.  I get both home and hotel calls.  The times I would not want to see the client is when they don't screen out, when the location is in unsafe area (although this has never happened), or when there are other people in the location I'll be visiting, such as roommates.

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Briar1779 reads

where a very well reviewed high volume lady was doing incalls at her home.  Well unfortunately the neighbors didn't appreciate it and a bust insued.  If your hoping to be high volume then stick to the hotels and vary them every few days so as to not alert housekeeping or managemnet.  
Good luck.

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shudaknownbetter1738 reads

I am convinced that housekeeping certainly knows when a provider is there...  they can't get in to clean the room...  but providers also tip well.  Management would have to be stupid to not suspect a local address guest...  but they like to keep the occupancy rate up.  

NO Hotel can withstand the heat if it becomes public knowledge.  That's why providers & clients must keep a low profile.  Always look like you belong.  

Yes, changing hotels every couple of days is a good thing.  I'd also suggest not using the same hotel "every Monday & Tuesday",  change it up some weeks.  

Trying to work from home has a lot of extra risks if the provider does more than occasional dates.  Especially late hours.

be smart, stay safe.
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WildTurkey-1013332 reads

I do incall and outcall, but it is nice not to have to be the one doing the traveling all the time.

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Briar1450 reads

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WildTurkey-1011152 reads

If that was my house I would have a designated parking space for providers!

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Bostonguy572076 reads

I had an out call come to my house once a few years ago when the wife was out of town.  I had a great time with the lady but it dawned on me as this gorgeous Brazilian woman was shaking her butt down my front walk and back to her car that the neighbors were getting quite a show...I never did it again.  Some ladies won't do out calls to private residences for safety reasons, some have no problem with it.

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keystonekid1223 reads

For privacy reasons (neighbors), I would not invite a lady to my home.  My hotel room is a totally different story.

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Bostonguy571415 reads

LOL, Imagine how I felt when I woke up the next morning and found a condom wrapper on the floor!
What seemed like a good idea when I was alone and horny was actually pretty dumb...

For single guys I guess it's not as much of an issue but the prying eyes of the neighbors would be enough to make me think twice...

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AllyMoore1797 reads

...And very seldom outcall to hotels.  In the instances that I do the screening is intensive and I'm still nervous arriving and for the first several minutes of session.

Outcalls to residences on the other hand are comfortable; the client feels safe on his own ground and I feel more casual & relaxed than when I host.

I think residential outcalls tend to have a more fun, NSA appeal.

However, if you're married its not a good idea.  I don't like looking at pictures of families OR the prospect of having to jump out of a window to escape if your SO comes home earlier than expected LOL!

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SweetJaneHR1953 reads

I would rather see a fellow at his home.  Once I had a guy tell me to look for his wife's car and if it was there, come back in half an hour.  LOL.  Needless to say, I didn't mess around with that craziness.

Related Link: Doctor Jane makes housecalls.

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Madame X1610 reads

I also prefer meeting a man at home. I like to take some time to get to know a person, get the tour of the house, curl up on the bed, get comfortable and perhaps naked... much better than the awkward moments spent walking around a hotel lobby looking for the elevator, or contemplating whether or not there will be enough clean towels in the room to take a shower both before and after your non-competitive wrestling match :)

From a safety perspective, however, I'm not sure it's the best option for either ladies *or* gents... If something proved to be off on either side, it's a lot easier to run from a hotel than it is from a private residence. After all, they have security cameras at the entrance, so *someone* knows you're there, even if it's just a computer. Especially for the gentlemen, lol, since theirs' is the house in question! While I'm sure all of the ladies of this board are sane, respectable, and would *never* be rude enough to disrespect your home, running into a crazy ho can be devastating! Even if she was unarmed, and you managed to get her out of the house before she stole anything, just imagine the scene she might cause in the front yard, lol.

Needless to say, private residences and CL don't mix, lol.

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SinsOfTheFlesh1280 reads

Well, its up to you what you feel most comfortable with. For my part, I absolutely do not do outcall unless a gentlemen has at least 2 references for me. Particularly if the outcall is to a residence. That is for my safety.

Second of all, unless you know the lady you are inviting to your home, I highly recommend you do not have her come to your home. Lets face it, there are alot of wonderful, honest ladies who have a sense of integrity who are providers. But there are alot of rip offs and scams too. Do you really want to roll the dice and hope the lady about to show up at your door falls into the honest and trustworthy category? That is your call. If you choose to have a lady come to your home though, definitely definintely definitely do your research.

What might work best is to go and see a lady the first time at her incall, and after that, if you clicked with her, have her come to your home.

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