Good philosophy about not counting the money in front of your client. Discrete pick up the envelope and go into the restroom to freshen up and Count the money. If the money isn't right, either the guy makes it right or leaves. I wouldn't ignore the envelope until after the date because there are some guys who will try to "give it to you next time" or just plain short you.
Hi everyone!
I'm completely new to the industry and I just got hired at an agency. I believe I have all the "basics" down except for one thing...politely and graciously accepting the envelope, as well as discreetly counting the donation to make sure the correct amount is there.
I never count money in front of ANYONE but the bank and store clerks. I just think its tacky and flat-out rude.
So, do I sweep the envelope off the table, as I go to freshen up/call agency? (followed by an amorous expression of my gratitude, of course!) Do I leave it on the table until after the session is over, but before my friend departs? Please excuse my ignorance!
Renata
Welcome to the Newbie Board! I am sure you will get different answers to this question but the one that makes most sense to me is to have the gentleman leave the donation in the bathroom by the sink. If you are doing an outcall it should be already there when you arrive. If doing an incall, have the agency tell him to ask to freshen up in the bathroom as soon as he arrives. That way you can go anytime you like and never have to accept or count the money in front of him. Hope that helps.
It is also acceptable to count after the gentleman leaves......most all verified gentleman would never cheat or short a ladie...
I have seen it both ways.....pick it up and go in restroom...never touch it.....funny last couple of times ladies did not dee lay it down and ask me about it....I am like not sure what you are talking about but look over there......
Had one were security was an issue and I went back to the car and returned after the deed with her gift card..........but she was aware that this was how things would go down........
also maybe a book or magazine lying where you want it,I have tucked it in that before also
be safe.........DO YOUR SCREENING.......
saber
This is a good question... My ATF is old school where the donation is made as the gentleman dresses, he places it on the dresser without comment. (I make sure the donaion is separate in a front pocket so I'll feel it.)
However most ladies don't do it that way today. I guess they've been stung.
It is tacky to accept the donation directly but I've had it done to me... or to count it in front of him. Sometimes, the lady leaves the room & stashes it before the date commences.
Read back & you'll see occasional things that can happen... If it happened once, it can happen again. A few that I've read here:
If left on the dresser during the date, he managed to palm it as he was leaving.
Another went into her purse to reclaim it (probably when she was in the bathroom).
I'd say that somehow you need to leave the room with the donation and to call in, quickly verify the donation & stash it somewhere it won't be found if HE uses the bathroom.
I'm sure we'll never meet but PLEASE be an honest provider. I realize that one can not guarentee chemistry but as a client there is nothing more disappointing than finding I was mislead.
Wishing you the best,
skb
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Knowing just this much will help alleviate the nervous factor for me.
I've been lurking here for a little bit and have read some of the horror stories regarding theft.
I've gotten stiffed a couple of times before, back in my dancing days. Needless to say, I've learned my lesson, for the most part. 
SKB, thank you for the advice, and don't worry... the agency I work for does not believe in stock photos or stolen Victoria Secret model pics. 
~Renata~
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Hi Renata, wecome to the board.
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jazz32
Ah, thank you. My apologies.
according to the ettiquette on your (or the agency's) web site. Or if no instructions are given standard protocol is to leave it in an envelope in plain site (usually the nearest flat surface like a dresser or table). He should then excuse himself to freshen up and give you a chance to make sure all is well and secure the donation.
If he doesn't so this on his own then after he places the donation then tell him to relax and make himself comfortable while you freshen up. Give him a nice kiss and gracefully scoop up the envelope and head to the restroom.
Make sure all is well and come out with a big smile and ready to play.
Good philosophy about not counting the money in front of your client. Discrete pick up the envelope and go into the restroom to freshen up and Count the money. If the money isn't right, either the guy makes it right or leaves. I wouldn't ignore the envelope until after the date because there are some guys who will try to "give it to you next time" or just plain short you.