Honesty is the best policy.
I have issues due to childbirth AND weight loss. If a guy says he is thinking of writing a review, I tell them I don't care, but they need to be honest. With that said, it can be done in a respectful and tasteful manner.
I'm a big girl, I can take it. And it doesn't do any me or them any good to lie, hide or try to be nice. It's a big world out there, and different men like different traits. We'll see if the plastic surgeon concurs in my consultation next month. LOL . I'm a MILF and proud of my body.
In the meantime, I need to tell you about my new product, "Rebecca's Revolutionary Rack Wrinkle Remover".
I'm new and have seen about a half-dozen providers over the last several months. Two of them were young twenty-somethings, very attractive. No wrinkles on their faces or elsewhere. But the lower part of their breasts were extremely wrinkly, with like dry skin.
I was wondering if this is a side effect of a certain type of drug abuse, like meth. I know meth abuse makes you look prematurely aged (although they did not seem prematurely aged - only in the boobs).
I don't think they were bad boob jobs because they didn't feel like implants. They definitely weren't stretch marks either. Thankfully I pretty much just paid the girls and sent them on their ways after seeing the breasts (without commenting on it to them obviously).
Many times there can be a change in breast tissue and or appearence from breast feeding. Not everyone can afford to have a breast lift or corrective surgery. I'm quite certain these women are well aware of it and may be self conscious. It's nice to know that there are gents out there that after seeing their breasts pay them and send them away.
Thank you meow....heaven forbid there is any flaw on a woman's body that might be due to child bearing, or possibly she was overweight at some point before she started providing....why anything and everything wrong with a woman's body or physical appearance has to be related to drugs. What if there is something physically unatractive on a man, but of course, it is never referred to being so because "drugs"??
And why the heck is it always meth??? Any drug is going to affect the physical appearance of anybody. There is too much tunnel vision on meth, as there was in the 70's with pot, the 80's with coke and the 90's with heroin. Meth is just the drug of the 2k...and when you think about it..it is actually crank, speed...ya know, the stuff from the 80's..just made where all the crap that goes into making it is cooked out. Thats all.
Who knows...maybe she smokes 8 packs of ciggs a day...but 1st reaction by anyone is .....drugs.
gheez
Yes...I grew up in the 80's so I am aware of all the different types of "chemical usages"...and damn proud to say Im glad that era in my life is long gone!! lol
Many with sags, stretch marks, scarring etc. have breast fed kids and/or had dramatic weight loss.
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I think there can be a multitude of reasons for that, I would not automatically assume it is drug related.
If any of the half-dozen were in the past 3 months you can still write a review.
A review of what? Humiliating them? What should he say in the review? What COULD he possibly say in his review that would not thoroughly humiliate the woman in question?
As much as I love a woman's breasts, I don't have any personally. I really don't know much about them except the obivious... I'm certainly not an ob/gyn. I'd not venture to guess blindly as to what caused a woman's breasts to look a certain way.
Now I'm sorry if the lady's breasts turned you off but that's all there is to it.
I'm am sure that if I get rid of a few extra pounds I'll have wrinkles too.
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First and foremost, this is a review board. My comment was to a hobbyist who is a Newbie to TER who just made his very first post here. He very well may be like many others and not be aware that he can write a review of any providers he has seen in the past 3 months. Besides, he only had one negative problem with 2 out of the half-dozen he has seen, so I assume the other reviews would be good.
As far as answering your 4 questions I will say again, First and Foremost this is a Review Board. He should write an honest review of his experience, it is called giving back to the community. He could say alot of things in his review, it is all in how you word it. Reviews are not there to only praise how wonderful a provider is and do not dare say anything that might hurt someone's feelings, if that were the case there would be no need to write or read reviews.
If I were him and I saw a lady who had something that turned me off that bad, you bet I would write a review right away to warn my fellow hobbyists. Then again, what turns me off may light someone else up. Lets see, how can I say this carefully....If the lady in question becomes soo humiliated over someone telling the truth, then she needs to correct it or find another job. Just my opinion.
Honesty is the best policy.
I have issues due to childbirth AND weight loss. If a guy says he is thinking of writing a review, I tell them I don't care, but they need to be honest. With that said, it can be done in a respectful and tasteful manner.
I'm a big girl, I can take it. And it doesn't do any me or them any good to lie, hide or try to be nice. It's a big world out there, and different men like different traits. We'll see if the plastic surgeon concurs in my consultation next month. LOL . I'm a MILF and proud of my body.
In the meantime, I need to tell you about my new product, "Rebecca's Revolutionary Rack Wrinkle Remover".
If your like most of the rest of us, just be happy they let you touch them.
And I agree, don't automatically assume that it's drugs.
Ouch.
Memo notification: the differences in build, feel and consistency of women's bodies across the board are immeasurable, no matter the amount of media airbrushing and/or surgical interventions* you may have been previously exposed to in your experience to date.
General genetics, childbearing and gravity play a far greater role than anything else, and the drugs conclusion is quite an odd one . . .
I'll be sure to keep my own nature-affected, birthmarked and single, cutely moled 34H's covered for you . . .
*(no offense intended to anyone)
Many things make the list of possible causes....
1. Its completley natural. (most likely 'cause')
2. Precocious puberty, a condition in which the onset of puberty occurs early, sometimes as early as age 7 or 8. The development of breast tissue is too rapid for the skin to accomodate. The result can be stretch marks, or wrinkled appearance to the skin due to loss of elasticity.
3. Recent dramatic weight loss.
4. Long term effects of tanning.
Sorry, drugs do NOT make the list. Drugs have many negative affects on the body, particularly to the teeth and bones. But they are not known to cause wrinkled skin. Smoking does, but that wouldn't affect the breasts, it affects the face which is constantly exposed to the drying effects of the smoke.
Some helpful suggestions for you. You might want to consider the fact that the human body, in all of its marvels, comes in every possible shape, size, shade, and yes, skin tone/condition. I am betting you probably have a pimple or two on your own ass, and perhaps a body part that is less than picture perfect. Unless a woman is willing to spend tens of thousands of dollars on every cosmetic surgery known to man, every woman is likely to have a 'flaw' or two. Instead of focusing on the flaws, focus on the whole person.
It is good that you at least paid the girls when you sent them on your way, but if your standards are that high, you might want to do your research a little more carefully in the future.
One last suggestion, you need to get over the stereotype that automatically assumes we ladies are probably drug addicts. Most of us aren't. And we get kind of cranky when this stereotype once again makes its appearance on the discussion boards.
Most likely a recent weight loss. You were correct not to comment on it. There was one who asked me about her breasts, I told her to exercise on a regular basis to get rid of droppyness.
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fat in your natural boobs
stretch marks (which are not necessarily the result of age)
implants (some feel so natural that it's hard to tell)
It definitely is an overreaction to suspect that a little bit of wrinkling on her boobs is due to drugs.
I had a friend that got into drugs at one point (boy did her school work suffer!) She didn't get wrinkled or aged, but she got super tiny skinny, lost all of her boobs, her ass, her stomach flattened, her legs and arms got tiny and she had a greasy sort of film about her. It was horrible to see her like that. She looked like skeletor.
Katie