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I want to play it safe and make sure that I am wearing a cover for any action even though I guess it seems the odds of getting something from a BBBJ are low.

How do you bring this up with a provider?  And before you say "Duh, you just tell her" what I mean is: others on this board give advice to not talk about anything directly for mutual protection/comfort.  e.g. I have read about some hobbiests who showed up at an LE sting, but because they were asked what they wanted: and instead of saying "massage, hand job, and then a covered bj... I want to be safe and wear a condom" they said "lets just start with a massage" they couldn't be charged with anything.  

Also, being as this is my first appointment, I don't want to overstep things or say something that is going to cause concern to the provider.

Maybe this *is* a stupid question, but I am kinda nervous.

1- it may be out in plain view-

if it isnt

2- when you are ready to rock n roll - say to her " Uhm, where is our Love gloooooove.. LOL " or something of the like

3 Oh man - we better slip a cover on Missy miss!

When things progress to the point where you are naked and she either goes to perform a BJ or you ask for one, just tell her you want everything covered.

She will not mind at all, I am sure.  The only problem is that many condoms are lubricatred and don't taste too good.  So if you know your lady usually offers BBBJ you may want to bring some non-lubed non-spermacide condoms just for good measure.

No well reviewed lady will feel bad about you asking for everything covered.

I keep a baggie full of flavored condoms for the occasions when a client prefers a CBJ.

Some people don't like them, but I LOVE the chocolate ones!

Just tell/ask your provider that you want to use a condom for oral as well as f/s, she won't mind.  It's a really good idea, and the only reason many girls do BBBJ is because many clients demand it.

Have fun, play safe.
TS Jamie :-)

choose a lady that only offers CBJ's. That's whats so great about reviews. You can choose a menu that suits your taste and desires! That's one of the best bennies of being a VIP member.

-- Modified on 5/8/2008 3:15:26 PM

who offers only CBJ, don't worry about it. You won't need to ask. She will know when to put on the cover.

And, no, this is not a stupid question. It would be stupid if you didn't ask.

-- Modified on 5/8/2008 8:46:33 AM

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