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Re: Newbie bummer...TOFTT?
just4funindfw 31 Reviews 2193 reads
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Sorry to hear that you had a bad experience w/ a well reviewed provider. She maybe off her game that day. Or there maybe something that cause her to be uncomfortable to being w/ you. Or a combination of both. If you feel very strongly about the way she performed, write a review, but be objective about it.

Well, I followed all the advice; became a VIP member, did major research and made an appointment with a provider with all great reviews and a few pages of them. When I got there, nothing seemed right and although she was pretty, she seemed uncomfortable and not into it. Only one of the very appealing details stated in her profile actually happened and I felt like plenty of women must feel on a date with a guy - like someone she just wanted something from and nothing else. I do very well with women in the real world and can get it free any time, but this world has intrigued me because I'm sick of relationship BS. I was polite, and let her lead, but it was a total dud for me. On the way out, an older, angry looking woman on was on the couch and gave me the dirtiest look I've ever been on the recieving end of. NOTHING in her reviews was present there - the trick pad, the BBBJ, the "with finger" touching below the waist, the second pop - only the rimming, which was great, but not what I came for...
Very bummed out about what this means - research, all the advice, etc. still added up to a waste of my time and money.

Rapacious Recidivist1899 reads

On the bright side.

She wasn't a bait & switch

She wasn't a cash & dash ripoff

She wasn't an LE sting.

Hopefully your next (if you chose to pursue) will be infinitely better.

I had it happen to me too, and it was with a girl from a reputable agency.  She had the worst attitude.  So do what did: write a review telling how she treated you, then move on and forget about it.  (And for the records, she no longer works.  The agency must have kicked her out.)

Of course she wanted something from you - your money-

And you were there- cause you wanted one thing from her - her vagina :)

Some girls have bad attitudes- some girls you just dont have chemistry with - of course- in that relation.. same as the civvie world -


-- Modified on 5/7/2008 11:22:36 PM

Showered, brushed, flossed at the gym before going, showered with her when there one hour later. Whatever it was, it wasn't about hygene.

Thanks to all respondants - it's amazing to me how much clear, adult support and advice is offered on this website, on this topic. It's greatly appreciated and I also feel very rare in our world to find a group of people as rational, helpful and supportive on any topic - I'm amazed and humbled.
I'm going to continue to look into this world - I feel like I've live all my sexual fantasies already and now I want to find out if this world (provider - client) can be fulfilling for me or not.
Blessings and peace and PASSION to all...

Sorry to hear that you had a bad experience w/ a well reviewed provider. She maybe off her game that day. Or there maybe something that cause her to be uncomfortable to being w/ you. Or a combination of both. If you feel very strongly about the way she performed, write a review, but be objective about it.

I am so sorry you had a bad first encounter. I am a newbie lady of sorts and always try to make their first experience as good as it gets. Please post a review and it may take a few times to get it accepted. I am sure you were not the first to have had this problem and not the last. Someone might have written a review on this problem but just didn't follow thru. Now you could have been busted, total rip off or not even seen the lady you had your heart set on seeing. Try again and your not a newbie anymore.
  Kisses Haley

It really sucks to be you, but don't let it discourage you. You don't have to be a newbie to have an encounter that really sucked, or didn't suck, as the case may be. Most of us have had them, both hobbyists and providers alike. Find another lady who interests you, and give it another shot.

Look at the lists of some of the guys' reviews, and you'll find that we've had a lot more good experiences than bad ones. Write your own review, be honest but tactful, and move on to your first wonderful experience.

Good Luck

Newbie bummer...
Posted by murd13, 5/7/2008 2:40:24 PM


Well, I followed all the advice; became a VIP member, did major research and made an appointment with a provider with all great reviews and a few pages of them.  I was polite, and let her lead, but it was a total dud for me.


 She probably isn't a mind reader so its best to take the lead ......and show her what you want

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