As do M&Gs. My advice would be for you to get active on your local board. I can't speak for any communities other than Atlanta, but we have M&Gs, both formal and informal all the time. Most of them have been very successful. Atlanta is known as a drama filled board, but our M&Gs have always had one rule,"check the drama at the door" and I can't think of an Atlanta gathering in recent history that ever turned into a drama fest.
Your worries about an advertised party being open to all is largely unfounded, we advertise many of our gathering on the public forums, but the actual details of the meeting are only divulged to those who are invited and pass screening, and that information is dissemenated only at the last moment for security purposes.
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Not for the p.j. party you fellows are dreaming of, but as friends. I've wondered if there would be a meet & greet in my area (there aren't any and haven't been any listed in 500 days). I don't think I'd go to a party that's advertised to everyone, too many unknown persons would probably show up.
Maybe a little by-invite-only party; do those happen?
but often it is like storing powdered chlorine in very close proximity to gasoline.
I've been to several meet & greets and witnessed everything from polite tolerance between ladies to an all out, close fisted slugfest between em’.
I’m not trying to be a downer, nor am I passing judgment. I’m merely reporting on what I have witnessed.
To be fair; anytime business, money, egos and alcohol come together it creates a perilous alchemy with either sex.
I'm a new provider and emailed a local lady to verify a gent. When she realized I was a newbie, she offered to meet me for a drink and chat. She gave me all kinds of great info on screening and such. She is very sweet and helpful and I'm so glad I met her.
How did these slugfests start?...what were they over? I would think that it's just a friendly party.
Let's do lunch honey!!!!
M&G's are close to your area but never 'listed'. In fact they have gone more UTR than ever, so they are by invite only. If interested, you can pm me and I will get you an email address to ask for an invite.
As do M&Gs. My advice would be for you to get active on your local board. I can't speak for any communities other than Atlanta, but we have M&Gs, both formal and informal all the time. Most of them have been very successful. Atlanta is known as a drama filled board, but our M&Gs have always had one rule,"check the drama at the door" and I can't think of an Atlanta gathering in recent history that ever turned into a drama fest.
Your worries about an advertised party being open to all is largely unfounded, we advertise many of our gathering on the public forums, but the actual details of the meeting are only divulged to those who are invited and pass screening, and that information is dissemenated only at the last moment for security purposes.
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I myself wish I had some close girlfriend providers to have fun with. I have been around to many years to talk about but in the old days we were all very close. I still have contact with girlfriends all around the country who have married with children and very happy. They may say something funny in remembrance of our old times togther but want to leave things in the past.I never bring things up.
In time you will find friendly providers who want to help out or are like yourself, just looking for a friendly ear to chat with. It is hard living on the QT and not wanting others to know what your doing. This is uch a big part of your life and to want to share conversation about it is only natural. Once you are on the provider board let others know you are actively searching for friends. I have done this and am meeting a new friend next week with much excitement. She lives 2 1/2 hours from me, but thats no big deal to me. I have given open invites to a few ladies in my area but they are busy and I am older so they may not be interested. Keep mentioning it in some of your posts. Some will answere. Keep youself safe.
Kisses Haley
I wish I had someone to share my sexperiences. So many funny, strange, wild things happen and it would be great to laugh about them with a friend.
I am a member of a very small board. The members are from all around the U.S. and a few outside of the states. We have dinners two or three times a year. They have been held in New York to San Francisco and a few points in between. I have always enjoyed meeting the other ladies, and it is great seeing them when we visit each other’s hometown.
Never hurts, but you might want to let the other ladies get used to you. Your way of chatting, mannerisms, etc etc.
I hosted a few parties in the past, and they were a blast. Plus, I got to invite whom ever I saw fit to invite. Left out the drama kings and queens, and just had fun.
Plus, it never hurts to e-mail a few ladies now and then either. Thats how I've become pretty good friends with a few itchin to get my tail back to Chicago. LOL
Have fun with it!
xoxo
Diana