Throwing a tantrum about it kind of illustrates their point. Sit down son, and let ol' DC

explain it to you.  First of all, try an agency real quick so that you can get rid of some of that pent up frustration, they don't tend to have the same age requirement issues.  The independent providers that you are encountering are businesswomen who provide a wonderful service.  Most of them have developed age requirements for their own reasons, but mainly so that they do not have to deal with the pitfalls of the young - immaturity, missed appointments, unrealistic expectations, no money, and general, well, youngness.

These are all generalities, and, for the sake of peace, I will fully accept that they do not apply to you; however, I bet you could think of ten of your friends right now and those generalities will apply to at least five of them.  The providers don't want to put up with it, and they don't have to.

Besides, you have youth, which allows you all kinds of things we older guys don't have anymore: at least let us have this.



BTW, you can search on this issue and find many posts regarding it just within the last month or two.  Read them, because most of them are from the ladies themselves.

Good luck

disrespectful, or blow off appointments (no call no show), or are too aggressive etc.  Others say younger guys are immature.   I don't think age should be a factor.  If I were a gal, I'd prefer a 20 something to a 65 y.o.

Theres nothing wrong with being young...

I get that sometimes.

A lot of providers stereotype the under 35 crowd.

I think younger men actually have a lot less drama in their lives then some of the older hobbyists.

I think a lot of providers fear they may not meet our expectations of an appointment, which  for the most part is untrue.  

There are a lot of proviers though that see younger guys;just look through their websites for any age restrictions or call them and find out.

Funny you should ask this with a red face....read on grasshopper

I just posted this a on a local Seattle board after a series of PM from newbies asking advice.

Lately I have had many emails from new(er) guys asking me questions and advice. I am always happy to help, we were all new once. And I am still learning with every encounter and experience.
But there seems to be some common issues here that I feel the need to address.

Respect and manners-This applies to all of us but especially the younger guys (under 35). Many ladies prefer to see men over a certain age. They do this for various reasons but I think it mostly comes down to respect and manners. I have received emails the last few months asking me things like "who is the best F*ck in town" or "who can F*ck me like a circus act", etc.

Many ladies don’t like younger guys because their manners aren't as good, they tend to treat them rougher and like a f*ck rather than like a lady who you can f*ck....get the difference. Be respectful; treat them like you would a wife or real GF in terms of being kind and respectful. They will show you a very good time if you are good to them in return.

Please remember the ladies are ladies first, treat them like you would treat your wife or girlfriend. Respect, manners, and courtesy-they all count. Don't worry the ladies will provide you the service(s) you seek. But attitude and approach go a long way to making her feel safe and comfortable with you.

After all would you go to a place to meet a total stranger and get naked just because they called you? Not me, these ladies are brave and take considerable risk each and every day.

Give them a reason to be comfortable with you by being a gentleman. Just because you are polite and kind is no reason to expect that the ladies will not get dirty with you, they will.

Pay attention to their cues; are they comfortable, relaxed, and aroused? Do you care? I don’t mean to say that you can’t have that sweaty, gritty, raunchy, nasty, wonderful, animalistic, monkey lovin’ you crave…you can. Just consider whether she is ready and comfortable with it.

Patience-I know we want what we want, when we want it. But the ladies and the boards will be here tomorrow and the day after that. Take your time and learn before you take the plunge.

If you don't know how to research a lady, ask. We are happy to help. Post on the board a research question. DO YOUR RESEARCH!!!!

You can expect your experience with your escort to be similar to the experiences that you will find in her reviews. READ HER REVIEWS, that way you don't have to ask, "Does she kiss?", "does she provide BBBJ, CIM" or whatever.

You should have a good idea what to expect before you ever pick up the phone or send your first email. If there is something special you seek and it isn't in her reviews what do you do?

Do other reviewers state that she was open to role play, fantasy fulfillment, outfit requests, etc. If so, then your lady is probably open to your request(s).

Get informed-Read her website!!!! All of it. Read it again if you are thinking of contacting her. She will tell you what she expects of you in terms of behavior and protocol. If she doesn't use standard protocols (have you been patient and done research, if so you should know what this means). Some sites have newbie instruction manuals. Ask others how to find them if you can't find them with Google.

My biggest point is that these providers do provide but they are women and people first, dynamic beautiful sexy people. Not an object for you to use and discard. Yes you will enjoy them and then you will part ways, as it should be. But treat them nicely and they will take care of you in ways you never imagined.

So when can you ask the direct question you have been dying to ask, how about when everyone is naked, completely naked. Feel free to speak freely. But in general, you should know the answer before there is ever a knock on the door, do your research..

If I sound like a White Knight, maybe I am…but I have a diatribe for the less than professional providers out there too. For the providers who are there to take your money and get you out the door with as little human contact as possible, for the providers who see us as ATMs, who up sell, disengage and don’t respect their client’s time, desires or feelings… but I digress.

not attracted to younger guys. I find them to be arrogant and egotistical with little respect for me. No, not all are like this, but enough have been since I started working to where I feel comfortable screening against age. There are a number of ladies out there who will see younger guys. I'd be more likely to see you though, even being younger, if you had a list of solid references with reputable providers who would vouch that you were a good client who treated the ladies with respect.



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To gauge what each provider in your area is going to do. Many women have an age limit because they are only attracted to older men and want to enjoy themselves as well.

I prefer to see gentlemen who are 30 or over, however, I have had several clients younger than that and a few that were 24-25 range.

Personally, it all depends on how mature you are in your initial correspondence. Providing all the pertinent information and avoiding the pitfalls of trying to talk dirty to a girl are just some of them.

For example:

"Hi Rae, I saw your ad on Eros and I am very interested in setting up a date with you.

Name:               John Doe
Cell #              555-555-5555
City:               Atlanta
Booking city:       Augusta
Date of request:    May 3
Time                Afternoon
Length of Appt.     90 Minutes

References: Since I haven't done this before I do not have any provider references but here is my work information. If you need anything further please let me know.

Work Place          Lowes Home Store
Phone               000-000-0000
Position/Title      Manager


Thank you for your consideration and I really hope I get to meet you soon."



This person sounds extremely sincere. He sounds like he really took the time to read my website and get his information into order before he contacted me. He did not use vulgar language or request any specific sexual acts. He provided enough screening information for me to adequately screen him even without a provider reference. However, if he HAD a provider reference I would accept that as well.


I would see this gentlemen based on the information he has given me because he sounds intelligent, excited to see me, and he's obviously spent considerable time making sure he answered all the pertinent questions on my website. The one thing you DO NOT SEE on my form is age. I do not discriminate because of age. Sure, I prefer to see men who are a little older but to be honest the only thing I discriminate on is intelligence.

Hence the next gentlemen I will use for a no no guide:

"rae, what's up hottie I wanna fuk u so bad 2nite can you cum over? heres my # 999-999-9999. call me soon."


Um, no. Sorry. Not going to happen.


So you see, while many women do discriminate against younger men most of us do not. It's your maturity level that we are against. Be courteous, thorough in your communication and make sure you give her the information that she requests.

Have Fun and Play Safe.

~Rae Monroe  

Re: What is wrong with my age?!?

Heh, I was a little frustrated when I wrote that. Let me try this now that I'm calmer, (and no, it didn't take 2 days to calm down, just a visit to a woman I see every now and again.)

I wrote this because I got turned down the last 5 times because I was too young. 2 of those times I was asked for my age before I was asked for references.

Anyway, I'm wondering if there's some way to get past this "you're too young" thing.