It seems every time I look up a provider listed under S&M or heavy spanking, it's a dominant.  I'd love to find a provider who plays the submissive role, but haven't had much luck so far.  Maybe it's something some are open to, but since you can't discuss specifics when arranging a meeting, what's a hobbyist to do?  

Does anyone know of any submissive providers?  I'd sure appreciate the help.