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Re: Just Wondering?
JudgeDredd 1719 reads
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You shouldn't need to give all the facts. However; the historically based in truth joke is that male Homo sapiens have an instinctive reticence to reading instructions or data already given. This is especially true of the vast hobbying demographic found on the lesser 'amateur' escort sites like "craigslist".
Even the large, parochially focused, professional escort malls like Cityvibe & Eros suffer from being easily found and accessed by the most clueless of neophyte.  

 A savvy hobbyist with a TER VIP membership has ALL the information they need as well as the etiquette not too ask. A hobbyist familiar with TER; but lacking the VIP membership is afforded only the most general information giving only data on your appearance and how to contact you.

 Remain resolute in NOT giving specific details such as your services or price in e-mails or phone conversations. This is the very data that LE uses to bust you with.

As a provider, It does take some time to decide where you want to patrol ( no LE pun intended! )
The complaint I've gotten, meainging they want all the details!  

Why I am supposed to give all my facts...plus if you check other sites?

JudgeDredd1720 reads

You shouldn't need to give all the facts. However; the historically based in truth joke is that male Homo sapiens have an instinctive reticence to reading instructions or data already given. This is especially true of the vast hobbying demographic found on the lesser 'amateur' escort sites like "craigslist".
Even the large, parochially focused, professional escort malls like Cityvibe & Eros suffer from being easily found and accessed by the most clueless of neophyte.  

 A savvy hobbyist with a TER VIP membership has ALL the information they need as well as the etiquette not too ask. A hobbyist familiar with TER; but lacking the VIP membership is afforded only the most general information giving only data on your appearance and how to contact you.

 Remain resolute in NOT giving specific details such as your services or price in e-mails or phone conversations. This is the very data that LE uses to bust you with.

From your question I wasn't sure if you were being asked for location or services.

As far as location, it does help to have a vague idea of where you will be in any city (downtown, east side, county Y, etc.).  I don't think that is giving too much away.  If they ask if you are inside the limits of a particular jurisdiction, that may not be a good sign.

As far as services, yes, we do want to know.  You shouldn't discuss them with us and we shouldn't ask you.  But we still want to know and I wouldn't book without having a reasonable expectation that the services I am interested in are available.  That's why this site is valuable for both of us: I don't have to ask, you don't have to tell.  As far as referring a caller to a review site, you could say "I'm reviewed in a number of places" and leave it at that.  I don't think I could provide you with good advice on this issue however.  Maybe a more experienced lady can address any dangers in saying this.

Some guys just don't know any better than to not ask.  Other times it's a situation you don't want to be in.  If you can maintain an acceptable level of business, my advice is to hang up on those that want to discuss services.

I would also recommend getting your reviews (if you have any) linked to your handle here.  The link from the Newbie Manual (at the top of the main newbie board page) is below.



shudaknownbetter1118 reads

As a client...  I'm just now approaching a new lady of interest.
I have checked out her VIP reviews here, and I have checked her web site.  If I had not and asked questions answered there (mainly services, donation, a few current picturs), I'd expect her to direct me there.  Some web sites have a calandar which can show city or town which is enough information to see if it's a location I can get to.  (I contacted a Fav lady after checking her site & finding a town & exit number close to me...  with a single motel in sight of the exit.  Management may wink at such activities but can not withstand public outrage.  I contacted her & she immediately fixed the ad.)  Sometimes I see ads for ladies I know & they list the next town over...  or a place with multiple hotels.
BTW, I'm always suspicious of ads that run the same pict over & over...  too easily fake or old...  I suggest that a lady rotate 4-5 picts...  sexy does not need to be 100% revealing.  
Just my thoughts,
skb      

We live in the internet/information age and many in this hobby have gotten used to knowing everything there is to know about a lady before they book an appointment.  By the same token, many ladies have built very nice bank accounts because of their great reviews.  
Does it have to be that way? No, not really. As a provider you are free to decide where you will promote your services and how much up-front info you are willing to share.  I have two favorite ladies who have taken very different paths to being successful in this business. One works for an agency and has four pages of great reviews, the other is totally UTR, has no TER presence and no reviews. Both ladies are as busy as they want to be and are never able to take every booking that is available to them.

The choice is yours!

-- Modified on 4/27/2008 5:33:02 AM

he's going to complain no matter what.  I only do outcalls and I get emails all the time:

"How come you don't do incalls?"  'cause I don't want to!!  
"Can't I come to your house?"  Hell no!  
"$200 is too much, what can I get for $80?"

I just block their email addresses.

I never talk about anything on the phone or in person. If you love to kiss and are ready to have fun with very limited no's just mention you are GFE. Now for some guy's that are new and been ripped off that may be a problem. The phone conversation is your first hump and thats a big obstacle with no reviews. Most gentlemen who have been around know what to say and what not to say. They will accept GFE and then deside to trust you or not. I hope you are friendly and articulate on the phone as that first impression will win you over or turn your new possible friend off. If you are uncomfortable making phone contact so will the person on the other end.I am not an e-mail gal and demand at least a few conversations on the phone before we meet. It works for me with locals but much harder to do with out of towners. First time you meet nothing says welcome more than a nice sensual kiss. Please keep yourself safe and don't make yourself ever look needy in any way as some men see that as a red flag to question your rates. I am a low volume provider and my rates are somewhat low for my area but I love my locals and prefer that to big money at hotels. I have regulars so to speak from over 15 years so I am set already. Work towards making friends and you will do well. Love what you do and the guys will come back to see you. Hope this helps a little  Kisses Haley

Haley, not only do you consistently garner very highly performance ratings, you always seem very generous sharing your experience with new ladies.  I would hope that the less experienced ladies would look at you as an outstanding source of knowledge and information.

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