cancellations run rampant in both ways. I had a babe cancel on me less than 1hr out because, get this, she had just received several cancellations. What? Yes. I don't think she saw the irony.
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A friend of mine is touring here and got a bunch of cancellations. I don't know if she'll be back. If you ABQ dudes want touring girls to show up here follow through on your commitments or sit there with your dicks in your hands.
screening and gaining commitment through deposits is KEY in any touring situation....as is being transparent and having decent credentials as a provider.
I've had the most wonderful time there in ABQ with the sweetest new friends! and had zero cancellations...but then..i identity screen fully, do deposits on my longer dates..and they have plenty of info about me out there so they know they are dealing with a reputable professional.. i did reject some invitations.. Overall, it's about being as discerning as a provider with the company you keep as some gentlemen are with their companions.
you are always going to have the crowd of hobbyists who cancel on a whim (cause obviously their time is "more important" or they reserve time and only go thru if they are in the mood..or cancel if another girl runs a better special- the key is to weed those knuckleheads out before reserving time in your schedule or spending big$ on accommodations etc for them)
Well put Melinda. I was aware of your visit. I knew what a visit with you would most likely be like. I saw your information in multiple locations. Your web site is attractive professional and can be navigated. You clearly seem to know we don't just frequent or depend on just one site for "coming events" You are well reviewed on numerous sites. I did not contact you but I was comfortable that if I did I would have heard from you in a reasonable time to plan an exciting encounter.
Some providers act like we will wait forever for a response. Understandably some have commitments that make communications more limited. Set an expectation for response and follow through. We get it. To participate in these activities most folks have commitments to ensure you beautiful and talented ladies are properly compensated for your time. Reviews actually mean something. To me some carry more weight based on common experiences and their overall history. Most of us can spot the disgruntled or unreasonable reviewer, but a track record tends to set positive or negative expectations.
I run on so will stop. Not aware of who was trying to come here and had to cancel. No fun to have your time wasted and your business uncertain. That's more than disappointing. Actually I'm disappointed that I was not to be able to introduce myself to you, Melinda. Hope timing for me is better on the next trip out here.
is as follows. I recently set up a date well in advance with an experienced, well reviewed hottie who was visiting Abq and who had posted her visit on the NM ad board. Just before her scheduled arrival, she told me she was cancelling the visit due to having heard about a recent LE sting that a girlfriend of hers told her about. She admitted to me in later email that perhaps she over-reacted, but she just did not feel comfortable visiting Abq under the circumstances. I did some research but was never able to corroborate the LE activity she referred to. Perhaps when she was talking to the OP she was unwilling to discuss the true reason for not visiting Abq and instead used the excuse of too many cancellations.
cancellations run rampant in both ways. I had a babe cancel on me less than 1hr out because, get this, she had just received several cancellations. What? Yes. I don't think she saw the irony.
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I've had two recent episodes of "NCNS" on the part of a provider.
On one, I arrived in the general area, picked up a room key in a pre-determined location, called for the room number and no answer...and, tried for 15 minutes. Nada.
On another, as part of a 2-call system, got to the general area close to appointment time, called, got voice mail. Called again a few minutes after the set appointment time, again got voice mail. Texted...no response. Finally left.
I even called a week later, left voice mail asking WTF happened (in a nice way) and never got a call back.
So, yes...this cuts both ways.
DW
The first time I toured here, I was low on cash flow. Every single date cancelled, and after paying for food, gas and hotel, I was broke and forced to sleep in my car. My Stepfather wired me enough money to get a weekly hotel and I was able to get back on my feet.
