The bottom line is that you either provide her with the information she requires for prescreening, or move on and find someone else who requests information you are more comfortable giving.
Not only does she have to be concerned with L.E., she also has to be comfortable that you are not a dangerous person.
SINfully sinthia
Being new to the hobby I have only seen one provider. She is no longer here and I doubt she would remember. I am trying to see another provider but for some reason no matter what I give her from work it's not enough. I understand her apprehension for LE so what can I do to make things easier to help identify me as not be LE? Also, any advice on anything else would be greatly appreciated. Thanks
The bottom line is that you either provide her with the information she requires for prescreening, or move on and find someone else who requests information you are more comfortable giving.
Not only does she have to be concerned with L.E., she also has to be comfortable that you are not a dangerous person.
SINfully sinthia
ask on your local board which ones are most accepted where you are.
Beyond that, I always suggest that you approach several escorts whom you are interested in and write them sincere and concise letters explaining your situation and giving as much personal information about yourself that you can. Ask specifically for a date and give a day and time. That gets them interested.
With that sincerety, someone will give you a shot sooner or later and then you will have something to build on.
Remember, grammar and spelling count.
Give her what she is asking for, not what you think is enough. If you are not comfortable with doing this then it is probably best to move on. Date check and other services like it may be helpful but you can not always count on that. Neither of my two current favs used any service for verification.
The bottom line is that there are women out there who will put you through the screening ringer, women who won't screen at all, and everything in between. Keep looking until you find a gal that will work with you and that you feel comfortable with. Don't however, expect a lady to change her policy for you.
All the advice, above, is good. To get started, find a verification service that has been around for a while and is trusted by providers in your area. I used Room Service 2000 (RS2K). It is my understanding that they use your information for verification that you are who you claim to be, then keep only the fact that you have been verified and some identifiers. The balance is deleted after the process is complete.
(Please correct me if I am under the wrong impression.)
There is a one-time fee with RS2K, but you are on file for life. I don't know how others work.
Once you have used the service to see one or two ladies, you can ask them to serve as references as you build your reputation.
For the system to work, you have to trust someone to do an impartial verification. I chose a well reputed, highly recommended service rather than giving every lady I wished to see the same (or similar) information each time.
A local friend insisted on RS2K before she would even talk to me. Now she allows me to use her as a reference.
join verification sites (still not 100% safe for the ladies, so they may ask for additional things)
attempt to contact the provider and see if she'll give a ref
start with ladies who have less stringent rules for seeing newbies and get them to give you a ref
Katie