I am sorry for not seeing this before.
I have the first date rule for many reasons.(first time customers only)
1. LE --if they are going to waste my time trying to get me to say something...they can do it while I am at a restaurant or in our 20 min date near my car in a public place. After the first date, they have to leave me alone or it is entrapment b/c we already are personal friends. Already had several LE go on dates and they DO TRY HARDER than all my other dates to get me to say things that will get me in trouble. They have yet to pester me after the first date since sex w/ someone you know is normal..even for money since we have a dating history. Let them explain to a jury that I got a steak dinner and some drinks and see what the jury will say.
2. Psychos, anyone who chews gum at a mile a minute and darts their eyes while talking needs to stay away from me and I need to be in a public place to get away from them. I do incalls for all first time customers so that my friend can keep an eye out for me. I may still get killed but hotel video cameras and hotel staff my catch the guy.
3. Rip-offs...although I ask for my donation upfront with sign language, some guys will still book an appointment and show up w/ no money. I have no interest in taking deposits so I kick them out but at least I got a high class dinner from them so it wasted time wasted.
4. I may not like the guy. He may be rude, overbearing, pushy and have bad hygiene. He may also be in his 90's telling me over email that he is a physically fit 60. (this happened) I don't need an ambulance at my hotel w/ me explaining that I am in my twenties w/ someone that old.
5. You can't say you didn't like my looks.
you see me before we go into the restaurant so you can walk out then or you can let me eat w/ you and not return for the 2nd date. I can't be confused w/ bait and switch and I wear sexy clothes so that you can see how fit my body is.
6. I talk about normal things during dinner so we get to know each other. I am establishing repeat clients who get longer sessions later on b/c I hate worrying about psychos and LE. If someone is willing to go to dinner w/ me and talk w/ me, they are willing to become a repeat client if I accomodate them.
hope this answers your questions.
I am sorry for not seeing this before.
I have the first date rule for many reasons.(first time customers only)
1. LE --if they are going to waste my time trying to get me to say something...they can do it while I am at a restaurant or in our 20 min date near my car in a public place. After the first date, they have to leave me alone or it is entrapment b/c we already are personal friends. Already had several LE go on dates and they DO TRY HARDER than all my other dates to get me to say things that will get me in trouble. They have yet to pester me after the first date since sex w/ someone you know is normal..even for money since we have a dating history. Let them explain to a jury that I got a steak dinner and some drinks and see what the jury will say.
2. Psychos, anyone who chews gum at a mile a minute and darts their eyes while talking needs to stay away from me and I need to be in a public place to get away from them. I do incalls for all first time customers so that my friend can keep an eye out for me. I may still get killed but hotel video cameras and hotel staff my catch the guy.
3. Rip-offs...although I ask for my donation upfront with sign language, some guys will still book an appointment and show up w/ no money. I have no interest in taking deposits so I kick them out but at least I got a high class dinner from them so it wasted time wasted.
4. I may not like the guy. He may be rude, overbearing, pushy and have bad hygiene. He may also be in his 90's telling me over email that he is a physically fit 60. (this happened) I don't need an ambulance at my hotel w/ me explaining that I am in my twenties w/ someone that old.
5. You can't say you didn't like my looks.
you see me before we go into the restaurant so you can walk out then or you can let me eat w/ you and not return for the 2nd date. I can't be confused w/ bait and switch and I wear sexy clothes so that you can see how fit my body is.
6. I talk about normal things during dinner so we get to know each other. I am establishing repeat clients who get longer sessions later on b/c I hate worrying about psychos and LE. If someone is willing to go to dinner w/ me and talk w/ me, they are willing to become a repeat client if I accomodate them.
hope this answers your questions.