You though, know what to look for and how to find a Lady who is in good standings. I do not recommend it though for a newbie. It can be too risky for them.
I just had a few questions to be answered.
For the hobbyists....
I recently read from a reply that avoid CL w/o good TER reviews....but what if her ad was a CL and she had several good reviews? would you, as a hobbyist see the provider?
...and another question is that.....on the providers profile, there were a lot of 'Don't Know'. I carefully asked the provider when I met her, and some of them she did agree to provide the service. If I do know that she provides that service, but I did not receive it, should I list it as don't know, or just go with what the provider said?
ex) On the profile for BJ it was listed "don't know" but she actually provided it with extra charge.
(I'm not saying this provider did, but just as an example....)
Thanks!
With regards to CL, I'd consider it if she had many good reviews by reviewers who themselves have a good track record.
With regards to services, they are checked yes or no by the hobbyist who does the first review, ie. his answers create the lady's profile. If you review and answer differently, it likely won't change the answer in the profile. If you want to change the profile, submit a problem report.
I thought it changed it if they gave different answers if Don't know was in the spot?
Diana
Sometimes it does, but in my experience, most of the time it doesn't. Problem reports, with specific reviews to back it up, are usually the quickest way to update profiles.
You will hear many varying opinions about CL, some even preach to avoid CL at all costs, like a provider is poisoned or dirty if she has advertised on CL. LOL! The truth of the matter is many providers who have great reviews on TER do use CL from time to time, especially some of the traveling ladies. So I would not hesitate to see her if she has several good reviews.
Every provider's profile page is set up by the first reviewer. Unfortunately, many times they are inaccurate or with alot of 'don't knows', or sometimes service just changes over time. Also unfortunate, when you come along and write a new review and answer the profile page accurately, they are not going to change a damm thing. Several reasons why, not worth debating now. What you can do is after your review is approved, you can submit a problem report for each inaccurate item on her profile page and they will change it, also give you 2 more VIP days for each problem report approved. Like your ex: Click on 'Report a Problem' and simply say something like 'I just reviewed her and blow job without condom is on the menu'. Check your Account Manager in a day or so and you will see if it was approved or not, then you can submit another problem report until the profile is up to date. I usually end up with 25 to 30 days credit after each of my reviews.
You though, know what to look for and how to find a Lady who is in good standings. I do not recommend it though for a newbie. It can be too risky for them.
Yes, but his question was would you see her if she had good reviews. So I take that to mean he already knows how to look up and read reviews, therefore removing the risk.
on CL, and I would add that it applies no matter where she places her ads. If you are new to the hobby (rather than just TER), you should only see a lady if she has multiple reviews by reviewers with multiple reviews to their own credit. How many? It depends on the area. In Orlando, there should be enough action in the area to have review (as opposed to a rural area), so I would suggest ten reviews by reviewers with at least an average of seven to ten reviews or more a piece. This eliminates the false "good" reviews that rip-offs and unscrupulous scam artists will plant.
Sometimes CL will be the only option for a particular area, so it shouldn't be automatically eliminated. However, in Orlando, there are so many other good resources available, you should avoid CL until you garner some experience. You could very well have a great experience with CL, but why chance it if you don't have to?
Cross reference the profile with the lady's site to see if the services match. Also, since you should be seeing someone with at least ten reviews, you should be able to determine exactly what she'll do for you by reading the details of the review rather than just going by the fields. WildTurkey has a great suggestion on how to fix it once you get to the review writing stage.
Good luck
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"I would suggest ten reviews by reviewers with at least an average of seven to ten reviews or more a piece. This eliminates the false "good" reviews that rip-offs and unscrupulous scam artists will plant."
If the review was written by a reputable hobbyist on TER one review is more than enough for me..
to distinguish who is reputable or not is another matter. You and I have experience to rely upon, not only on the BS detector, but also on our Danger Radar when going to the appointment. If someone is just starting out in the hobby (as I qualified), then my suggestion would be to play it super safe with a very well reviewed (quality and quantity) provider. Especially in Orlando (where his one review is) where there are so many great providers to choose from.