Re: married but wondering

I'm a little confused and assume your definition of "talk to a girl" means a provider? After all this is what this web sight is all about.
One must remember to whom and where you're asking this question as the answer will vary.  If you discussing "girls" (I like to refer to them as woman) at your local church group you'd probably get a slightly different response than on this discussion board.  This is a "hobbiest" board and a few, some, most, alot (??) of us "hobbiest" have SO's, and we obviously "talk to girls" (woman). If you mean a provider, "girl", there are rules on what to talk about and what not to talk about found in the Acronym and Newbies manual top of this page. If you are asking about "girls"(woman) and your marriage in general another avenue is the Erotic Highway discussion board listed to the left and ask the Love Goddess if it's alright to "talk to girls" or any other dilemma you maybe having.  
To answer your question, yes I talk to "girls" (woman) have done so before SO, will after SO, and truly enjoy doing it.

It is very poor form to monopolize a provider's time with emails or phone calls unless you are pretty much committed to setting up an appointment.

These gals have a lot of email and phone calls to return to serious clients and do not need the task of teaching newbies all about the hobby.

That is what this board is for.

If you haven't done so already, you should click on the self help manuals above and read them thoroughly as well as getting familiar with all the acronyms.

Questions regarding the hobby can always be addressed on this board where they will almost always be answered seriously, if not cheerfully.

Good luck with your progress.