some of these questions may sound incredibly stupid, so please bear with me.
i am just curious - i'd love to hear from women who have not ever been caught by LE, and have been STD-free for the duration of their time in the lifestyle.
how do you stay safe? for those who have remained STI-free, do you provide BBBJs? just curious.
thanks in advance...
Hi Lily,
I gat tested every 2weeks so No I have never had a problem. I always play safe and take very good care of myself.
I have never had a run in with LE, had a few really weird phone calls b4, a few yrs ago when I first started can't say they were and can't say they weren't but my gut Intuition told me something wasn't right. So I ended the conversation.
I never discuss any details over the phone, thats an issue I am not going to get into.
I only see Gentlemen with really good to great references. I love to get references from the ladies who are well reviewed, I can trust that.
Use your head listen to your intuition Always. You may not even know what it was that felt uneasy sometimes, and for my money, you don't need to know. If you get spooked, do not see him.
Check references Always.
Just be smart, I am sure if you follow all these you should have no trouble.
Best of luck...
Nicole
Oh if you haven't already, it may be wise to take a good self defense course. I have never needed it but this is a crazy world and this biz is risky.
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On the same topic, has anyone gotten an STD from BBBJ? Do people report that on TER?
there are surveys out there that say no but also say it can happen just not reported. Yes you can catch several STDs from bbbj and kissing. So its all a toss of the dice.
so... on that note.. do you provide it? how do you feel about it? do you think it is a wise idea to provide that service? hrm... i enjoy bbbj but i will stop doing it if it is too risky... i know a man who's been running an agency for 13 years and claims he has NEVER had a girl say she got sick from bbbj -- but i get nervous.
this is all your call. It is what you are comfortable with. You should never feel you "have to" do anything you are not comfortable with.