Are there older women with sex drives? I'm in my eighties but still have desires for sex, but cannot find ladies who have the samne feelings and desires who are in my age range.
I.ve tried escorts...but it.s like havinf sex with mny grandaughter. Do any mature ladies have sexual desires?
Sorry that its tough to find older sexually interested women. They must be out there, though. You must not be looking in the right places.
Please keep us posted on your search. I, for one, am taking notes for later.
Happy New Year. I hope it brings a woman to you that has your drive.
May you live to be a hundred, jpoppy3,
OF COURSE there are women same age as you out there with sex drives! Have you read about the spread of STD's in retirement communities? It's a problem, and it's real. The trick is where to find these ladies without checking into Sunset Manor.
TER on the whole might not be the best source for it, as I would venture to guess most escorts hang up their garterbelts by the time menopause has set in. You can always go for a MILF type, but there will probably still be a 30 year difference. Of course, if you can deal with that, there are many hotties in their 50s [search the over 45 category in TER's database] who would float your boat into complete nirvana. On the other hand, seeing that there are so many more women per men in your age cohort, finding at least a couple who are interested in getting it on to the max shouldn't be so difficult. I suspect the problem will be one that is prevalent in all age groups among civvie women - how many will be interested in having sex with no strings attached?
I also imagine that we're dealing with sociocultural and generational issues. A lady who came of age in the 1940s probably wants to have at least some kind of a boyfriend commitment before she opens up those pearly gates. A quickie with no promises is probably not high on her list. After all, people beyond middle age are generally conscious of the finiteness of life, and they want to make sure that time spent is Quality Time and not wasted. I assume that goes for sex as well.
My recommendation - and I'm sure this is no news to you - would be to check out social clubs, dances, cruise trips, etc. There are zillions of senior citizen activities with loads of widows and unmarried women out there. If you can make your age requirement a little flexible, say a hottie in her 60s or 70s, I'm sure you both could get your rocks off. But you can't do the four F's, it won't work. You don't have to rush out and buy a ring, but I do believe that somewhat of a commitment, at least to dating for a while, will be necessary. Remember, for women any age, sex is always between the ears first, and between the legs second.
A New Year's toast to you,
the Love Goddess
hey, isn't sex with your grandaughter illegal? bwa ha ha ha
her grandaughter could be 40 how illegal how is that?