I too like to leave feeling that I was able to give my SP some amount of pleasure, but I am far from being a "stud". So, I only worry about what I can do for certain, and try to be the best client I can be. This includes being clean, being on-time, asking if there is anything I can do for her, and generally just treating her like a gentleman should. This is what they want! This is what I can do.
Being nervous is part of the fun! Many if not most of us were nervous as hell our first time. I am still nervous every time I meet someone new, but thankfully not so bad when I see an SP for a second time. Its part of the ride - enjoy the scenery!
IMO: MSOG is a service, not a garauntee. You'll find some SPs offer as many as you can handle, while some only allow one. I must add that some of my most memorable times so far have been one-pop-only appointments.
Ok, I am new to this, just enjoyed my first escort experience this week and its a mixed bag as far as the experience. I decided on a BEAUTIFUL woman and I scheduled 2 hours so I wouldn't be rushed. I popped twice, but still had more steam left in me but she didn't...said she would bring more condoms next time. I was cool with that at the time, but now as I look back, I am worried about future visits with other escorts.
I am 39 years old, not slim but not fat (I lift weights...mostly powerlifting), I guess I would say I am attractive as I do get compliments from the ladies on occassion. I am succesful in business and quite generous and I REALLY like sex.
I have an appointment with another GORGEOUS woman this Wednesday...how do I tell her I may want to go as many as 3 times in an 1 1/2 to 2 hour session? I know I'm not allowed to mention anything of the kind on the phone or in email. When we meet do I say "I have been known to pop 3 times in an hour and a half...will that be a problem?"
Here is the other part of the equation...I look at these women not as escorts, but as someone that i wnat to please as well...though I may be the one paying, when we are done, I want teh woman to think "wow, what a great lover". I know some guys are macho and only care about getting thier nut, but I'm not that way.
I sure wish I could go back to my first session...man was I terrified. Definately NOT my best performance....
I too like to leave feeling that I was able to give my SP some amount of pleasure, but I am far from being a "stud". So, I only worry about what I can do for certain, and try to be the best client I can be. This includes being clean, being on-time, asking if there is anything I can do for her, and generally just treating her like a gentleman should. This is what they want! This is what I can do.
Being nervous is part of the fun! Many if not most of us were nervous as hell our first time. I am still nervous every time I meet someone new, but thankfully not so bad when I see an SP for a second time. Its part of the ride - enjoy the scenery!
IMO: MSOG is a service, not a garauntee. You'll find some SPs offer as many as you can handle, while some only allow one. I must add that some of my most memorable times so far have been one-pop-only appointments.
I am still nervious when I meet a new Gentleman for the first time. I believe thats normal. Intimacy is a tricky thing and it requires a bit of comfortability on both parts.
Read her reviews and that should let you know if you can achieve the session you are looking for.
I would not worry so much about the number of times as the pleasure of the experience.
I am usually only good for one an hour. However, I have had multiple hour dates (overnights, 4 hour dinner) that I only popped twice. That doesn't mean that we only had sex twice. Hardly. They were AMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMAZING experiences.
Look there first. Then make sure you get the VIP so that you can read the details to make sure the field is correct both ways. So, read the reviews of the provider you are about to see to determine if you are can expect multiple pops. Every review that I've read has left no doubt as to how many pops were reached, and most will say whether more pops were available even though the reviewer didn't have it in him.
Please keep in mind, however. These are women, not robots. There are a number of reasons why the provider you are with at the moment may or may not allow multiple pops for that session. You will just have to go with it.
Good luck
Bring your own cover supply in case the provider runs out.
I like my own brand so I always have them and I do not get caught without. If she has good reviews there should be no problem with MSOG and shame on any provicer who sends you off to the showers that fast. Shitty review time in my book.
I cannot help but comment, you say you do not look at these women as escorts and you want her to think 'Wow, what a great lover'. That is all well and good as long as you realize it is just your fantasy! I do care about the ladies, anyone I have ever seen will be the first to tell you that. But my first concern is to get my nut, not because I am 'Macho', but because I am keeping it real, she is an escort. If she begins to marvel at what a wonderful lover you are and you really want to believe her, try putting the little white envelope back in your pocket. Then you will get a reality check as to whether she is an escort or not.
I always carry a few condoms on a date. There are so many reasons to need a spare and it's not like you're goona run out & get them or order from room service. They're least expensive compared to the other costs of the date. Even if I only pop once, we often have covers on & off a couple of times in 1 to 1.5 hr, so need to have a supply.
Many times things get going too fast, slow down & enjoy the buildup.
I'm never at my best on a first date... nerves... and usually she isn't either. I tend to find Favorites (Favs) that I see again.
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Most good professional Providers will have on hand a variety of condoms available to fit all sizes and adjust to different sensitivities of her clients and certainly enough of each kind to accommodate 3 pops/hour client. I also wonder how many ladies would permit you to use your own cover. If I was a Provider I would not since I don’t know if they were properly handle to insure my maximum protection. For example, were they properly stored in a cool, dry place out of direct sunlight or were incorrectly stored in a glove compartment or wallet.
I prefer and insist on the covers I have with me. A variety of styles sizes and brands. It Is all about safety. To make sure that you have all you need for your experience with me I am always over prepared.
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