Newbie - FAQ
I didn't mean to offend a "lady". Just to help some guys. There was nothing negative about the race said at all. What was negative in the statement was that out of the several "ladies" I have seen who happened to be African American (who ALL had GFE in their promos) were just there to take my money and play games to get around the only reason I wanted her there. As I recall now after thinking about it....I think three out of about nine beautiful African American "ladies" were dolls and people I would be honored to be true friends with. I just think guys should beware.
Remember I've seen over 61 prostitutes and I can tell you that I've read reviews and read web pages that stated GFE only to find out that she was not.
Come to think of it. Maybe they were sick at the sight of me. I have a few stories to tell about hairy legs, smelly pits, mouths and holes to tell myself to be sure. I am sure a "lady" does too.
I guess it does come out bad when it is being read. But after loosing about $1800 of hard earned money I felt it important enough to post.
Also, the reason I used the term "ladies" was because I think women who do this type of work are what they are because of what they do. I did not mean to imply that they are not human beings with feelings and not worthy of respect as human beings. But they are not "ladies" in the purest sense of the word. Come on. Well at least as most would define a lady. I really don't need to explain that one.
But a prostitute by any other name is still a prostitute. I didn't invent the terms HO, Whore, Hooch(?), Hussy or Jezebel and lastly "women of the night". I think "lady" is much better myself.
Don't forget I am not a pro writer. I just wanted to share some thoughts and be a help to new guys out there who are like I was and need to get laid without the games.
Signed a "JOHN" by another name. 
The message and intent of your post is not only appreciated, but in keeping with the general intent of this board and site. Namely, to help others by passing on your experience(s). So, thank you.
That being said, and as identified by our illustrious board leader (or is that bored leader?), you need to work on the delivery of your message. While this is a site and discussion about the oldest profession, we don't have to treat the ladies through our language and post content, as if we are back in the olden days when they were considered less than us. Respect will always be appreciated and expected, and unless you and the lady are in the throes of passion and getting your kink on, the word "whore" should be reserved for the lawyers who post on the legal corner board (relax guys, I am one ).
When you adapt your delivery of the message to the audience, then the message is better received.
Good luck
It’s called find your inner gentleman. He seems to be lost.
Immediately after your OP, the moderator of this forum felt the need to post a reminder to everyone to “play nice” when responding to you. Why? Because, the basic content of your message includes some helpful info, but it was presented in distasteful way and you were in danger of being flamed for being a jerk regardless of your intent. You got that part, right? The overall tone of the post has an undercurrent of disrespect. But referring to providers as whores? C’mon.
Now you say, quote: “lol. you must not have read the post. She was offended by me calling them ladies in my first post. You can't win sometimes”
Huh…that’s not how I remember this. Interesting that you modified your post to remove the more unsavory parts---like oh…:let me see… “"Why call a whore if she isn't going to put out. Get them to tell you if they are true GFE or tell them no thanks and GO TO THE NEXT."
Under the circumstances people have been very nice to you, and have given you praise for the intended content of your OP, and gently tried to point out that your language and attitude was rude and unnecessary. Clearly that has been a useless waste of time.
Believe what you believe. But, remember this is not a back alley, a truck-stop, or a crack-ho no-tell motel on NY ave. And to other ‘newbies’: please do not behave like this, ahem, gentleman.
That is playing as nice I can.....the alternate post would have been much more fun
