The Erotic Highway

Re:LG! now is my turn to ask for....HELP!regular_smile
Love Goddess 10286 reads
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LOL, Penis Captivis Girl [gotta love that user name!]

See thread(s) below. Does familiarity breed contempt? Maybe not exactly, but the Penis Captivis soon becomes the Penis Vulgaris Familiaris!

Were you EVER able to orgasm with your boyfriend? I suspect yes, or else you probably wouldn't be in a sexual relationship with him. But just like all the dopamine-swinging guys visiting with providers just to get a hit off that sex-pipe, you probably find excitement galore in screwing someone you DON'T KNOW...that well.

When we have a barrier between ourselves and another, we are able to project whatever we want on that person. We are also able to "remain closed" and not have to share intimacy. Intimacy is what truly connects us to another, but it also makes us very vulnerable. And what can happen is that the intimacy and familiarity gets in the way of "wall-socket sex." Not to mention the stabilization of dopamine levels. The "risk-reward" mechanism flies out the window, once we're set with the sure thing..or in this case, the sure person. No more hits for the excitement junkies! And believe me, many, many brains are organized exactly along those pathways. Maybe yours is too?

A good example of this would be idolizing a famous rock star. You know nothing about him as a real life person, only what you've read and what you've been able to project upon him. And then, bam, you not only get to sleep with him once, twice, three times - you get to marry him. And you find out all those things about him that make him just like any other husband, and nothing like that stage persona you've been lusting for. So it's at that point that most marriages between rock stars, models, actors - insert celeb profession here - falters. Real life creeps in and sometimes paralyzes us to the point of not being able to orgasm. And of course, you must add the loss of PEA [phenylethylalanine,] that lust-in-the-dust neurotransmitter enabling us to let those orgasms fly in a massive way.

So in view of your brain draining of all those potent neurochemicals, and the addition of habituation, well, that can really block orgasms. Maybe if you didn't see him for a couple of years, or all of a sudden, he'd take off for some distant lands, and he came back unexpectedly in 2009, you'd get your big O. For now, it's up to you to decide if his banana or some other ones are the way to go.

Was this a test, or...?
the Love Goddess

Penis Captivis Girl12842 reads

Here is the situation.

I don't have ANY problems in orgasming with my clients.

No matter how old or young, how hott or not or how good they are or not --- I ALWAYS get turned on and cum like there is no tomorrow.

Now --- when I am with my bf I CAN'T and is driving me NUTS!

He's the hottest man around with an awesome muscular body and a fat veined dick that don't go down.

He's the best guy I ever met or fucked and --- still --- I cannot make myself cum with him :(

We just spent a whole day fucking & fucking and I had to FAKE!!!!

What is wrong with me?

I know the answer to my question, but I want to hear it from you, just to make sure I am not going bananas!

:((((

Love Goddess10287 reads

LOL, Penis Captivis Girl [gotta love that user name!]

See thread(s) below. Does familiarity breed contempt? Maybe not exactly, but the Penis Captivis soon becomes the Penis Vulgaris Familiaris!

Were you EVER able to orgasm with your boyfriend? I suspect yes, or else you probably wouldn't be in a sexual relationship with him. But just like all the dopamine-swinging guys visiting with providers just to get a hit off that sex-pipe, you probably find excitement galore in screwing someone you DON'T KNOW...that well.

When we have a barrier between ourselves and another, we are able to project whatever we want on that person. We are also able to "remain closed" and not have to share intimacy. Intimacy is what truly connects us to another, but it also makes us very vulnerable. And what can happen is that the intimacy and familiarity gets in the way of "wall-socket sex." Not to mention the stabilization of dopamine levels. The "risk-reward" mechanism flies out the window, once we're set with the sure thing..or in this case, the sure person. No more hits for the excitement junkies! And believe me, many, many brains are organized exactly along those pathways. Maybe yours is too?

A good example of this would be idolizing a famous rock star. You know nothing about him as a real life person, only what you've read and what you've been able to project upon him. And then, bam, you not only get to sleep with him once, twice, three times - you get to marry him. And you find out all those things about him that make him just like any other husband, and nothing like that stage persona you've been lusting for. So it's at that point that most marriages between rock stars, models, actors - insert celeb profession here - falters. Real life creeps in and sometimes paralyzes us to the point of not being able to orgasm. And of course, you must add the loss of PEA [phenylethylalanine,] that lust-in-the-dust neurotransmitter enabling us to let those orgasms fly in a massive way.

So in view of your brain draining of all those potent neurochemicals, and the addition of habituation, well, that can really block orgasms. Maybe if you didn't see him for a couple of years, or all of a sudden, he'd take off for some distant lands, and he came back unexpectedly in 2009, you'd get your big O. For now, it's up to you to decide if his banana or some other ones are the way to go.

Was this a test, or...?
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