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Re:Need Insight on this situationregular_smile
Love Goddess 9925 reads
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The answer is a resounding yes, slickgun,

You are both consenting adults, she's not offering you anything for free, and it's clear that the relationship remains a provider-client one. Psychologically, it could be a bridge for her during the initial period of retirement. After all, it's scary to enter into a new life stage, particularly if you've been used to the numerous benefits that providing does offer.

So, if you are the chosen one, and you accept your mission, just go ahead with it. And if one day, either one wants to terminate the agreement, I have no doubt that you'll do it as the reasonable grownups you are.

Nice and prudent of you to ask though ;-)
the Love Goddess

slickgun10429 reads

I have been with a provider for nearly a year.  We get along great sexually and see each other on occasions for lunch and dinner.  She has just retired from the profession and wants to only see me as her one and only customer.  I need some insight from others who have been in similar situation.  BTW, I'm not interested in getting into any long term relationship (i.e. marriage) and she is aware of this fact.  Should I just enjoy it while I still can?

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mrfisher9875 reads

retired providers and it is a constant source of joy to count them as friends and lovers without the hassles.

This is a payoff for many years of maintaining a close and loving relationship with excellent providers.

Not only do we enjoy our times together, but we provide objective insights into various love situations in each others lives and thereby enhance other relationships.

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slickgun9588 reads

mrfisher...thanks.  Are you able to keep a somewhat emotional distant from the retired provider when she tells you that she has found a life-long companion and its time to say goodbye to the relationship?

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mrfisher9124 reads

for about a year because she wanted to try to make a go of a relationship with the father of her newborn son.

I genuinely felt happy for her as I think very highly of her.  Sure, I would miss the trysts we had, but I have several wonderful woman to see, so it was not like a disaster emotionally for me.  We stayed in touch by phone every few weeks and even had a lunch or two.

The relationship with her son's father did not work out and we took up right where we left off and have been seeing each other regularly since.

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Love Goddess9926 reads

The answer is a resounding yes, slickgun,

You are both consenting adults, she's not offering you anything for free, and it's clear that the relationship remains a provider-client one. Psychologically, it could be a bridge for her during the initial period of retirement. After all, it's scary to enter into a new life stage, particularly if you've been used to the numerous benefits that providing does offer.

So, if you are the chosen one, and you accept your mission, just go ahead with it. And if one day, either one wants to terminate the agreement, I have no doubt that you'll do it as the reasonable grownups you are.

Nice and prudent of you to ask though ;-)
the Love Goddess

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