and read the reviews. This is what VIP is for. It is pretty certain that if a provider has many reviews, from reviewers who have reviewed multiple providers, she is legit. If all the reviews are from 'first timers' or individuals who have never reviewed anyone before or after... then use your own judgement!
How can you be certain that a provider is really a provider and not a cover for a sting operation to catch one of us who are answering their ficticious ads. The ad is linked to a reference here on ter???
In other words, how can you verify a provider is who they say they are?
I looked through the newbie manual and did not see this. Seems like if we are all consenting adults they should leave us alone.
and read the reviews. This is what VIP is for. It is pretty certain that if a provider has many reviews, from reviewers who have reviewed multiple providers, she is legit. If all the reviews are from 'first timers' or individuals who have never reviewed anyone before or after... then use your own judgement!
way to go. Don't just look at the pics; read the details in the reviews. The profile is done by the first reviewer and rarely changed after that. If the reviews say BBBJ and the profile says CBJ, I would bet with BBBJ. You should get the picture now.
Sticking to well reviewed providers, providers who screen, and providers with well put together website as opposed to put up overnight would probably help.
Stick with a well reviewed lady. Well reviewed means she has 5+ reviews by guys who have 3+ reviews themselves.
Once you have been around a while and can tell the difference between good, maybe, and bad then stay with the statement above.
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You want a well reviewed provider, and one that screens well. Also one that does not flaunt her location if it is in a small community.
Screening can be a pain in the butt for a newbie, but it does help protect you in the following instance ...
You are getting great advice here. I always screen new clients and I woul expect a gent to the same. If you are about to buy a new car, you will read reviews and talk to other people about their choice in cars. Why should this be any different?
I encourage guys to do their homework and make sure they are getting what ask for. I know it can be tempting to find that "new unpolished gem" but just remember, if it looks to good to be true......you know what I mean!
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I usually make it a habit to personally welcome gals willing to offer help, or gals seeking help!!! Unfortunately, this month has been quite hectic, and I haven't kept up. So let me wish you a late welcome!!!
Holly, it is great that you are posting here, the newbies, both male and female, will benefit from the advice you have to give!
I switched your link to your TER profile. If you want to post a link to your site on one of TER's boards, your site has to to display a link to TER on one of it's first 2 pages. i know this rule isn't always enforced on TER's board, but it is here.
Holly. wishing you always, and only the best,
jazz32
Thanks Jazz! I am working on getting the link added to my front page. I am more than willing to offer help advice. We should be willing to help each other out from time to time. I think of it as paying it forward.
Now, let's talk about the fun stuff!!!
sent to ur yahoo but if u dont get it for some reason, email me [email protected] and i'll help u with that
area would be a fool not to see you for a first encounter.
In reality, any hobbyist who is in the Dallas area should be making tracks to your incall or getting a hotel room to enjoy your company.
Thanks for the kind words and the help. I am adding a TER banner to my site.
This site is great for making sure you are getting what you want while searching for a provider. Always do your homework. If you need a tutor, call me! 
Holly, all I can say is "Unbelievable". I travel to Dallas about 3 times per year. The next trip I will set up a tutoring session. I think I need that. Wonderful lady.
See you soon.
Beauman007
A couple of points for you. First if the lady has a fully set up web page, not likely it is LE.
They don't spend that kind of money for stings, and go thru that much trouble for stings. Happens more often on places like CL, where there are no names with the girls, or the pic is an obvious fake from a porn site! You also won't see LE post nude, or semi nude pics in most cases.
Last, I always look for someone who has at least 3or4 TER reviews minimum..the more the better. Yes there are no doubt fake reviews about fake ladies here..that LE has set up. TER does it's best to screen reviews, but some will slip through. one other thing...LE is more interested in busting the ladies than the hobbyists...not to say they won't...but the ladies are usually the main target...hence the verification they use!