Newbie - FAQ

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If a provider says that she doesn't see younger clients, respect her wishes...and find another provider that does see younger men.

When I viewed some of the providers' information, they said they were available to professional and someone older than them...

Does that mean the provider doesn't like younger guys and we can't ask for an appointments?

Please don't say profanities...I just wanted to know.

If a lady had a firm age minimum (beyond legal of course) you should expect she will clearly specify it. By indicating her availabilty for older and professional, she is highlighting her level of maturity and intelligence. Go for it.

A lot of ladies have had bad experience from younger guys.  A lot of younger guys want to fu*k the whole 60 minutes and do not have a glue as to how to treat a lady.  "No" means "no" not try to force the lady to do something beyond her boundaries.

I understand your view. And I do have to admit, that when I have an appointment, I do expect to have an intercourse, but not throughout the appointment.

But everybody makes mistakes, and a lot of young people like me still have the notion that when they get an appointment with a provider, they expect something that they have seen in adult videos.

It just takes time for them to find out that, this is also a profession, and like everyone else, they are to be treated with respect. They are taking their valuable time and giving us a memorable time. Not everyone can do this.

If she doesn't want to see anyone under a certain age it would be stated clearly on her website. Just a generalization is a way of showing her preference not her limitations.

Give her a call (or email), be mature, treat her and talk to her respectively and you will do fine.

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If a provider says that she doesn't see younger clients, respect her wishes...and find another provider that does see younger men.

May I ask the general reason that she does not want to see younger clients?

I do understand that clients my age tend to be a bit immature, but I think that is stereo-typical.

If I treat her with respect and treat her like a lady, will I have the chance to get to know her better?

Please do not take any offense in my comments.

thank you.

maturity.  What a provider wants is not necessarily a person of a certain chronological age, but rather a person who ACTS like a person of said age.

So, to that end, write to them and state honestly your age and why you want to see them and why they should be interested in you.

If you come across as a person they would want to see, I'm willing to bet that some will respond favorably.

Remember, spelling and grammar do count.

Heck ,I'm 48 and consider myself "younger" until the damned mirror intrudes on my reality.

If she has an age limit it should be stated, not left open to interpretation.

Most of the time it is because of a date gone bad. They were treated badly or like a punching bag. The client acted very juvenile and never took in consideration the ladies physical needs. A good appointment is when the lady enjoys her time with the gentleman as well.
The gentlemen in my experience has been very good, and are very much welcome to see me again.
Just ask...we can get a feel for a clients mental age through how they speak or present themselves.

Good Luck!
xoxo
~Diana~

In fact, when I receive a request from someone who says they are exactly my minimum age (as my webform does not allow ages less than my minimum), I let the person know that when I check their ID at the appointment, I will verify the age and reserve the right to immediately cancel the appointment if it has been misrepresented.

I've had guys say they were 41 who were actually 21.  Honestly, did they think I wouldn't notice the discrepancy?  Or that I would just say "Oh, well as long as you are here?"  

Providers are people too.  We do have likes and dislikes and preferences.

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