Reading your message is heartening.

I'd love to meet some submissive ladies but was getting the impression that they are few and far between.

I'd like to hear more advice about how to go about finding ladies who offer those services. I'm about to send you a PM in the hopes that you don't mind, and in case it's better to discuss this off the boards.

Of course, I don't expect you to share details of ladies who don't advertise, just get your advice on how to do what you're doing.