If you're in a public place with friends or family and you run into a provider you have seen, can you count on them to pretend they do not know you?
Has anyone ever run into this situation? What happened?
Is this something a newbie should be worried about?
time playing it cool than the provider because she will probably have some experience at it. You should not worry too much, particularly if you see well reviewed providers.
I have never run into a provider with my family, but I did when she was with hers. We kind of gave each other a look, and played it cool. It prompted me to call her and make another appointment, at which we had a laugh about it.
Good luck
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Seriously, this is Discretion 101, and any provider that initiated contact with you when you were with family should be tarred & feathered.
Just remember, that works both ways. If you see a lady while you're alone, don't assume that the guy she's with is another customer. The most you'll want to acknowledge her is the polite smile that you'd give a perfect stranger you passed on the street.
i have had it happen while was out of town even- his wife was there and he just gave me alook and i knew not to even look, afterall.. i never seen this man in my life..lo right? recently it happend in the courthouse,... same thing- a look we both gave and kept about my business at hand.. discretion on both ends is nice, ...hell the sneaking is all part of the thrill,right?lol
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The advice above is all correct. Act normal and go about your business. It is called discretion.
I usualy walk right up to him and say to the woman "this man just looovvves how I suck his dick". Then just walk away.
Just kidding!! Just act as you would when you see a stanger. Nothin to it.
When are you going to demonstrate your talents to me?
I recently ran into a group of strippers from my favorite club. They were hanging out at a diner after work. I was with the wife. They recognized me, I gave them a wink and that was perfect. After dinner we passed their table on the way out. The wife didn't see them making eyes at me and generally goofing around (all these girls have great personalities and well developed senses of humor).
so, no biggie: just give a wink and smile as long as you're sure no one else will see. Discretion is the key.
Last summer while going home from work a provider that I had saw 3 times in the past yelled out my name. She yelled and yelled so much that I had to turn around to see who it was. Then I recognized her. It must have been the heat of the moment when she saw me. I did see her for another hot session later on during the year.
It was a good thing my family was not around. Thank goodness it was a later train than my normal one.
I did ran into a girl I had seen about 3 times sitting at a bar I guess with her boyfriend.
She said do you remember me and I was drinking scotch and could care less about the guy and flirted with her .
He got mad and made her leave .Never saw her again 
Several years ago I was with a provider on an extended overnight at a resort town when whom do we bump into but the provider who had introduced me to her originally and then had a falling out with her over the fact that I started seeing said provider (The one we bumped into, that is.) alone instead of in doubles as we originally had done.
Talk about an awkward greeting.
Only reasonable thing to do. lol
but I knew the two gals had dagger eyes for each other now, and I felt it best to just say hi and stride off into a chestnut tree.
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Starting a blog and sharing all these stories with us. It would help some of us younger guys. I get the feeling you have a lot more stories than we've read here.
"Hmmm this happened to Mr. Fisher. Now what did he do to get out of this situation?"
Well I have kind of had this happen twice to me already and I am a newbie since only Nov.
Firt time, a guy who called me, went on with the public, by fluke showed up at the club I am a regular at. When I saw him I was like Oh crap. He tried to get my attention by ear contact. Eventually he walked past me and carefully whispered to me "hello you look sexy". I of course ignored him and he never caused an issue.
The other time was so recent. I had an appt in a local hotel, I left first, got in the elevator, well it started going up instead of down, then went down and sure enough stopped on the same floor I was and low and behold here comes the hobbyist I just left. I smiled and then turned away. He proceeded to look at one of the walls and not look at me. We got off in the lobby and he briskly went past me. I thought it was pretty funny and also fun cause "we sneeked around".
Most guys realize discretion, but you never know, just beware and be on guard.
Bella
If it was only you and him in the elevator you could have played some more.
Oh and believe me I would have cause it was very hot and steamy!!!!!!!!! Dang now I am all worked up.
It would have been fun to start making out again in the elevator.
Lady left the hotel before me, was sitting on a bench apparently waiting for her ride when I walked out. I wasn't going to acknowledge her but she gave me a little wave so I smiled back and nodded as I walked by.
A few weeks ago, I had an appointment with a beautiful lady. I had a business appointment in downtown Orlando and was going to meet her at her in call location directly after I completed my other appointment. As I got on I-4 headed for her location, I got a call on my cell phone. It was her.
She told me to look in my rear view mirror. When I did, there was this huge smile shinning back at me. Now with literally thousands of cars on I-4 at any time of the day, what are the chances we would be driving right next to one another?
We spent the next fifteen minutes on the phone talking while driving to her location. The phone conversation just added even more magic to what I knew was already going to be a very special time.
...but I have something to add.
Yesterday as I was getting dressed at the end of a session and chatting with the lovely young lady, we learned that we both hang out at the same strip club. She told me that she hoped we would see each other there sometime and that when we do I had better act like I know her. Actually, we kind of made plans to go on the same night next week when a porn star will be feature dancing.
I thought that was really sweet and it will add a new level of adventure to my trips to the club.
If she had not said that, I would certainly not acknowledge her, as others recommend.