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So I didn't mention it even though it was on my mind when I responded...

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I read an interesting comment by Versacityvengence below as part of a response to a different topic.  So, do most providers not like marathon fuck sessions?  How long is too long of a time?  Yeah, popular cutlture does present the notion that its more pleasurable to a woman if there is a long session and the guy who lasts like that is usually portrayed in a positive light.  What would be pleasurable to a woman?

Would those points be to be a little less blunt when using certain words, especially on the headline of your post...lol

I routinely have 3 and 4 hour appointments with a couple of my favorite ladies.   You could refer to these as marathons, and I would guess that probably 75%+ of the time is spent in some sort of sexual activity.  However, a great majority of that activity involves oral or fingers or some other touching, with only about 20% being actual intercourse.  So, we can marathon sessions, yes, but most of the ladies won't want to spend the entire time engaged.  They tend to lose lubrication and start to hurt, and you are likely not the only guy they've seen that day, so there's the cumulative effect too.

Unfortunately, there are guys that think when they give her the envelope, they are entitled to do whatever they want.  Some jerks even forget that they are meeting a rel person, and not a inflatable toy.

I haven't been able to find it, but I remember a guy on the General Discussion board who complained about a bad experience in Mexico.  He was amped on Viagra, and wanted to pump her every minute he paid for.  At one point she said "no mas"!!!  He didn't let up.  Not that he was likely to be prosecuted, he crossed the fine line between consensual sex and rape, and yes, in spite of how they earn their living, providers can be victims of rape.  He was highly criticized by hobbyists and providers.

For the new members, I'm the token TS here on TER...  So it's all greek to me. :-) But no, after a point for girls or T-girls it's not fun anymore.

And it is different for every person and every situation, a well endowed fella might wear out his welcome sooner with a spinner than with a MILF.  New kids go look at the acroymyn list... :-)

And for sure the back door is going to close before the front door.

But really, isn't it about having a nice time with another person.  When it becomes just an exercise marathon it can lose the attraction.

Have fun, play safe,
TS Jamie :-)

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Glad to see you ask the question so honestly, but shocked to see the responses on both sides!

I *DO* enjoy sex. I enjoy *lots* of sex. More if you're good at it though :) Hours of sex, even days of sex! I like to try new things, I like to show off old tricks, and basically I just like doing it. Over and over again.

Then while we catch our breath, we can discuss science, politics, and cinema. If you're a Chomsky theorist, a Republican, or favor I Am Legend over Superbad, then we can argue about it and finish off the session with a nice hot round of make up sex :)

Just bring lots of lube, or don't be shy with your tongue... a girl's naughty bits stop self lubricating after a bit, and resulting friction burns may make me want to decline round 3 or so :)

Seriously... girls, insofar as I've experienced, love sex!

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very little time of it is penetration.  Lots of kissing, touching, and sometimes extended oral, mixed with talking, laughing and sometimes crying!

However, we are very in to each other and the long lovemaking sessions just happen!

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