If it is a big city hotel with a busy lobby you really don't have to worry about it. These gals know how to act when on their way to an appointment.
When I host out call I tend to do it in the suburbs. I will go outside to meet the gal through an alternate entrance. I do this with ladies that I know, I'm not sure if a new lady would have a problem with it or not.
In general it's a good idea to stay away from the lobby as much as possible in smaller hotels.
Do all you can to make the lady feel comfortable with you. Leave the donation in plain site but do not mention it. Have some beverages available as well. You may want to ask her while booking if she has a preference in what she likes to drink. Don't assume that a lady will be willing to drink liquor as many don't, at least not while they are working.
Best tip I ever got from a provider: Don't answer the door naked!
This will be the first time I host an outcall provider. My previous experiences have all been in-call.
I'm thinking that it would be polite to offer to meet the provider outside the hotel and walk up to my room with her. I know I'm always nervous walking through a strange hotel. I thought this might be a little more relaxed for her.
Should I offer? Is there something I'm missing? Thoughts? Also, any other suggestions for hosting a successful outcall are appreciated.
Thnx
I prefer to meet somewhere and walk her up to the room, the lobby if it's busy enough. I pretty much always walk her to her car or the cab when it's time for her to go. Seems the least a gentleman can do.
I used to e-mail in advance to find out what she preferred to drink so I could have some available. Now I mostly just make sure I have some diet coke and plenty of bottled water.
Just the sort of advice I was looking for.
If it is a big city hotel with a busy lobby you really don't have to worry about it. These gals know how to act when on their way to an appointment.
When I host out call I tend to do it in the suburbs. I will go outside to meet the gal through an alternate entrance. I do this with ladies that I know, I'm not sure if a new lady would have a problem with it or not.
In general it's a good idea to stay away from the lobby as much as possible in smaller hotels.
Do all you can to make the lady feel comfortable with you. Leave the donation in plain site but do not mention it. Have some beverages available as well. You may want to ask her while booking if she has a preference in what she likes to drink. Don't assume that a lady will be willing to drink liquor as many don't, at least not while they are working.
Best tip I ever got from a provider: Don't answer the door naked!
For security reasons, many hotels now, particularly here in Europe, require a room key-card for the elevators to operate. You can request that a visitor card be left at the desk for the business associate(s) who will be meeting you, but I think you are better off meeting her in the hotel lounge or lobby. You will want to scope out the place when you check-in.
Obviously, the best practice is to get her to your room with the least attention. Meeting a gal in the lobby, or the hotel bar will likely go unnoticed.
There are probably at least 5, probably 10, amateur, or "out of wedlock" encounters for every professional visit. Will the staff notice, yes!!! They know that lots of folks meet in the rooms for sex. But they don't know who is doing it for money.
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Have only had a provider visit once...all other times were incall. That one time, the lady took the wrong elevator, and had to call for further directions...in retrospect, I should have just met her in the casino...so yes, if it's a big hotel, do meet her at the door, preferably outside...
especially since more and more hotels require a room key to access floors after a certain time, usually anywhere from 8:00 p.m. or later. It will then be up to the provider to accept or not! She may prefer to meet you in the room! But, its her call!