it frequently isn't necessary for you to give work details.
But keep this in mind - the hobby is very addictive, and is a very easy way to screw up your life, if you aren't careful. It's like gambling, you should never put up money that you can't afford to lose.
-- Modified on 2/2/2008 11:39:35 AM
Just thinkning what about if you are an unlucky guy in this economy that got laid off but have references from established girls .Do you have to have a job in order to be seen ?
I mean it can happen to the best right ?
How well you come off in explaining your situation to a prospective provider will dictate how you will fare with her.
References are the best fall back of all.
Writing skills count.
Best of luck.
Would offering to send a picture be a good gesture ? . I know the references are the soild gold .
it frequently isn't necessary for you to give work details.
But keep this in mind - the hobby is very addictive, and is a very easy way to screw up your life, if you aren't careful. It's like gambling, you should never put up money that you can't afford to lose.
-- Modified on 2/2/2008 11:39:35 AM
If you have references you will probably not have to give employment info. Also, agencies seldom ask for employment details.
The words of Uncle Jazz ring very true for me. Hobbying is the most fun when you can do it guilt-free. I don't know what your financial situation is beyond what you say about being unemployed but it is VERY easy to fall into an addictive state when it comes to beautiful women. I'm not trying to tell you how to live your life but my past experience has taught me that it's not as easy as one might think to avoid spending money on the hobby that should be going to more important real world obligations...
Just my 2 cents, coming from someone who has blown the "milk money" on ladies for hire in the past and learned some hard lessons from it...
-- Modified on 2/2/2008 10:20:22 AM
Point taken and fortunately I am able to still enjoy the good life.
I live in a part of the country where most of my potential clients are retired. Not having an employment reference can be worked around. Simply give them all the info you can and be honest about not having a job for referral.
Plus, if it becomes an obstacle just sign up with one of the many reference agencies! Just be sure you are signing up with the one most preferred in your area.