I think you're using the wrong nomenclature. The places I'm thinking of are not AMPs and are not any kind of MP.
In NYC, there are CLUBS, sometimes dance clubs or even lap dance clubs. (They might be called something different in other cities.) These places are underground, floating clubs. There are no neon lights or names on the doors. They might be stable in a location for many, many months or they might get busted (by LE or landlords or neighbors) in a week. Policies and practices can vary and there's no Better Business Bureau to complain to if it's not what you were expecting. The lap dance clubs might involve pay a fee to enter, get a "regular" lap dance in a private room, usually lots more touching than a legal strip club with lap dancing, and then you can pay extra for something extra. In some cases, the lap dance is PRICEY and assumes the extras. One place in NYC sold DVDs that you could watch in the viewing room in the company of a DVD girl. The DVDs did not cost $5. You can assume the rest. I have no idea if that's the sort of thing you're thinking of. There are "regular" MPs and AMPs where you might interact with your masseuse and ask her for a lap dance but that would be YMMV and on a personal basis.So I have seen a few massage parlor sites that offer a lap dance as one of the services-I don't think it is an extra because it costs as much as a massage. While I know that each place and person is different I am wondering if anyone has experience with this- in the parlor not a strip club. Does the guy stay dressed for this or is he able to get undressed? Is it similar to panty grinding porn videos? Is it really a separate service or is it an add on to the massage?
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I think you're using the wrong nomenclature. The places I'm thinking of are not AMPs and are not any kind of MP.
In NYC, there are CLUBS, sometimes dance clubs or even lap dance clubs. (They might be called something different in other cities.) These places are underground, floating clubs. There are no neon lights or names on the doors. They might be stable in a location for many, many months or they might get busted (by LE or landlords or neighbors) in a week. Policies and practices can vary and there's no Better Business Bureau to complain to if it's not what you were expecting.
The lap dance clubs might involve pay a fee to enter, get a "regular" lap dance in a private room, usually lots more touching than a legal strip club with lap dancing, and then you can pay extra for something extra. In some cases, the lap dance is PRICEY and assumes the extras. One place in NYC sold DVDs that you could watch in the viewing room in the company of a DVD girl. The DVDs did not cost $5. You can assume the rest.
I have no idea if that's the sort of thing you're thinking of.
There are "regular" MPs and AMPs where you might interact with your masseuse and ask her for a lap dance but that would be YMMV and on a personal basis.
I am aware of the difference between lap dance clubs and massage parlors, I have been to both, but there in the Chicago area there is at least one massage establishment that offers a massage and also offers a lap dance. I was just wondering if someone had experience with this either in Chicago or somewhere else.
How do you find a lap dance club if they're underground?