My exact thoughts...
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There was a topic on the other board about how some guy got on the providers bad side and couldn't get another appointment. I would just be curious about the flip side....what makes a good encounter or a good client that makes a girl want to see the guy again or look forward to seeing them in the future? I'm sure ladies prefer seeing certain clients again..... What makes it so? Some anecdotal stories would be welcome.
Might be vulnerable, open, and exciting
Send a shiver down my spine
Hypnotize me with their kisses
Remember that I prefer dark chocolate
Share a little of themselves
Teach me something
Hug with their entire being
Laugh
Shiver and tremble and moan
Lay back with a blissful look
Respect our relationship
Engage my mind
Engage my spirit
Not a rubber fuck doll. The best sex is mutual and enjoyed by both people involved. My best experiences have been with ladies who made me feel comfortable and appreciated the way I treated them. I will never be confused for any sort of bedroom stud and fortunately that is not what the ladies are looking for. Kindness, consideration of both the lady and her time, openness during the time spent and discretion when the appointment is over, a sense of humor.
Just think of how you like to be treated. Not just what you WANT, but how you like to be treated and realize that, even though there is an envelope in the room, what we are talking about here is a very intimate act between two people.
Here are some starters.
1. Read the entire website of the provider and don't ask her any questions that are answered on the site.
2. Follow all her instructions, especially having to do with her fee and information about you that she needs to screen you.
3. Arrive on time (not early or late) neatly dressed (no sneakers, T shirts, cut offs, etc.) and scrubbed clean (your mouth and where the sun don't shine especially.)
4. Be extra polite and courteous at all times. Remember, no means no!
5. Know when it's time to go. Don't make her be the bad guy to throw you out by extending your time.
6. For extra attention, spend some time trimming the hair down there.
All of these suggestion and more can be found on the Newbie Manual link on the top of this page.
Actually I am a fat man with a small po-po and so ugly that small children sometimes spontaneously weep at my very presence,
but I always treat the lady with respect; follow her rules; never give her ANY indication that I am going to fall in love and stalk her; try my hardest to make it a mutually satisfactory sexual session; and actually talk to her like she is a person rather than a fuck toy. If you do this, you will never be black listed.
I've had ladies tell me that they have canceled others to fit me in, one just recently. I believed them because they had no reason to tell me this. True or not, it sure did make me feel good as a person, but not as the stud I'll never be.
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I too have had ladies schedule me when they were not planning on working or juggle their schedules when mine was tight.
I am currently seeing one gal when I travel to South Jersey/Philly who is currently retired from escorting but still sees me when I am in town.
It's always about the money and none of us should forget that (good customers never do). A good lady will go out of her way for a good customer.
make the experience as pleasurable for her as it is for me. I respect her boundaries and provide a BFE to go along with her GFE.
I have always acted as a BF would treat GF... Yes, I scrub up & dress as if going on a date.
My exact thoughts...
-- Modified on 1/31/2008 7:43:04 AM
I too, am new at this, but in the limited experience I have had if you treat them like you would treat any date, you should be fine. That being said, I assume you are a gentleman, open doors for the Lady, Say Please and Thank you, and all the normal courtesies which should be extended to a Lady. Plus if a new Lady, I always would trade a little talk time for action time, to get to know each other a little will always help.
Of course, previous posts listed proper etiquette (clean, on time, best behavior, pay without complaining, and most important treat her with respect). However, if you want to leave a favorable impression try booking a longer appointment, leaving a tip, or perhaps a small gift to let her know that you enjoyed her service.
Don’t forget this is a business arrangement. She'll likely take great care of you (if you did you're research & selection process properly), just make sure you to the same and take of her (from a business perspective).