How much did you spend on her before you got what you wanted?!? And how much for the "free" session?
I have spent more than my share on dancers. How can I tell if any are available?
sometimes in this hobby you just have to make an investment (i.e. part with cash) - you might not get a good deal, you might get a great deal. I'd see her a few times where she dances, become a regular good tipper, get a few private laps dances, once she gets comfortable and knows you, just ask if you could get her # and see her elsewhere sometime. if your lucky, she will say yes (and if she is available, she'll let you know the terms if you've built up trust; if she is not, having been a good tipper will at least get a polite let-down decline.
Ask her if she needs help paying her power bill after you see her a few weeks with private dances.
She will get the drift and yes it can work .It did with me.
Nothing ventured nothing gained.
I have also got a free session with a established hooker after I called her so yes it is posssible!
How much did you spend on her before you got what you wanted?!? And how much for the "free" session?
I saw the stipper about 3 times and tipped her for lap dance .I think it was 20 each back then .
I was nice and built rapport.
The escort and I saw each other for a real session once and hit it off .I called her to flirt and was able for score.
It will never happen again probably but I could tell when I called her to chat that she had an interest.
Nothing ventured nothing gained !
I am a complete newbie as far as "the hobby" goes - by scorecard is blank! However, I have frequented lap dance clubs many times, so I'll throw-in my two-pence worth.....
So the question: "How can I tell if a dancer is doing more than dancing?"
From my own experience, if a dancer offers more than just dancing, she will let you know during your first lap-dance!
I'll give you three examples, from personal experience:-
[1] The subtle-as-a-brick approach: During the lap dance the dancer says, "I can do full sex, blow job, hand job, whatever you like, etc, etc".
[2] The slightly more subtle approach: During the dance, the dancer says, "I do other activities, you know!"
[3] The very subtle approach: The dancer will remove her shoes whilst giving you a lap dance.
I generally steer clear of such dancers as they generally perform their extra activities in the clubs. I avoid taking up their kind offers as I don't want to be caught up in an LE raid. (Also I don't carry the sort of money they demand into a club!)
These days I now mainly take dances off just one dancer. I have built up a good rapport with one particular dancer who gives me priority over the VIP customers. She does not do extras and therefore I don't have a hope-in-hell of spending a night with her!!! That's fine; I'm cool about that. She chooses to be a dancer and just dance. I am happy with her company and her dances.
My advice here is to enjoy your lapdances and the company of your dancer, but don't realistically expect much more. If you are offered anything more (especially in-club), be very careful....
Bostonguy57's response would appear to contain sound advice. Hopefully in the next few months I might accumulate my first few points on my scorecard and back him up!
Cheers -
mike1862
If she removes her shoes how is that a sign. she took her shoes off before we started. We were in the nicest club in the area, in the lap dance couch area, in the corner. Never met her before, bouncer in suits walked by every 5 to 10 minutes roughly, maybe 15. How do you know about the shoes. I am really interested.