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kunzaito2951 reads

Hi everyone, totally new here.

My girlfriend is bi and we'd like to play together in a session. How do most providers feel about this? I never see it mentioned or listed in services. What kind of donations go with this?

We're also each allowed to go it alone since our taste in girls often differs. Would it make a provider more or less comfortable if my g/f was there on a first meeting?

We're tired of the BS in clubs and bars and would rather be able to easily pick and choose what we want, NSA. :p  Yes, I have an amazing g/f. And you can only share her if you're hot and female. :D

Their websites usually state this.

You will have to do a lot of research however as I just noticed that "sees couples" is not one of the filters you can click on the Search Reviews page.

Why not post a suggestion on the Suggestion & Policy Board that this be added to the Search Reviews page?

Remember that you are moderated, and it can take up to 24 hrs for the board's moderator to approve your post.

Given the nature of the nature of the S&P board  and its fairly low traffic, I expect it is only checked once a day by Staff, the board's moderator.

jazz32

I would feel VERY uncomfortable if a woman were present during a session.

I've had couples that wanted to see me, but I had to  turn them down.

I'm as straight as an arrow. Not attracted to women.

Many people have criticized me for this, but this is how I feel.

kunzaito1550 reads

Thanks for your input! It's important to know. I get the feeling many providers feel this way. The important thing, as with everything, is honesty - why should you do this if you don't like it? No one will have a good time - you will be uncomfortable and the hobbyists will feel like they didn't get what they wanted out of it.

Unfortunately, like I said, it's not often mentioned in reviews/profiles. I guess it's just a thing you have to call and (subtly) ask.

Maybe it's better to try on my own first just to see how the whole thing should play out before adding a complication?

Unfortunately, TER's profiles are not always that reliable (for the most part, they are created by the first reviewer, and don't get updated unless the provider, or reviewer, makes an issue of it.

That said, that said, there are a couple of fields you want to focus on in your searches for a couple friendly provider:

1) Two Girl Action.  The answer you want is is "yes - really bi".

2) Will Bring a 2nd Provider.  The answer is "yes", or at least "yes sometimes".

These will indicate the provider has experience and enjoys working with another woman in the room.

FWIW - I heartedly endorse you suggestion to add options like "MF couples", "MM couples", and "FF couples", to the list of services options.

jazz32

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