Newbie - FAQ

Re: Tipping?regular_smile
xxmeowbabyxx See my TER Reviews 1224 reads
posted

I think after the 'deed' is done, handing it to here is pretty much a moot point. Go ahead...slap those extra c notes in her hand!

In previous treads there has been discussion regarding tipping and gifting. I'm wondering what is the best approach to leaving a tip? I have strickly adheared to the recommended procedure of placing the donation in a white, unmarked and unsealed envelope, and placed it on the closest flat surface. I feel awkward in trying to place the tip in the donation envelope, after the fact, or end of our meeting. Nor can I, if the womam has already picked it up. And, if the donation should not be left out without being in an envelope, should or can the tip be left out? Any suggestions would be helpful, since I have often felt like tipping, but refrained due to not knowing how to do it properly. I usually just end up sending a ecard.

-- Modified on 1/10/2008 4:36:17 PM

sleepydasher1156 reads

Hey Matt,

The primary thing about the white envelope with nothing  said-  is for first visits and beginning of visits.  After the visit, and with repeats, lol, you are both pretty sure neither one of you is le! I still follow the envelope protocol for all visits but tipping is a different story for me.

So on tipping, I don't worry too much about "protocol".  If the envelope is still there, I sometimes slip the tip in it or under it.  Or I leave the tip on the bed stand if I'm sure she'll see it.  Or ofter her car keys or purse is on the kitchen counter and I tuck the tip under either of those.  Or if her suitcase is near and open, I slip it in there.  

If none of the above is applicable, I hand it to her with a big smile and say "thank you so much for an incredibie time!"

-- Modified on 1/10/2008 4:41:18 PM

It was interesting to see there were no serious posts from providers. Perhaps not wanting to appear to be exercising bad taste, or afraid of being flamed again. I was really hoping to get their feedback also.

If you have gotten comfortable with the lady and are ready to leave and want to tip, hand her the tip. I have always handed a lady tips and have never had a problem with that route.

Johnny Apple-seed3097 reads

Actually, I think the best thing is just to let her know and then set it in front of her or just hand it to her... why worry so much about protocol?  Tipping is a good thing....there's almost no way you can f it up.  Of all the times, I've just handed it to them, they're very happy with it....  It's not like they're going to go "you bastard...you just tipped me." :)  Also, if you tuck it into the enevelope, they might not even realize you tipped them, thought you miscounted, etc...

I think after the 'deed' is done, handing it to here is pretty much a moot point. Go ahead...slap those extra c notes in her hand!

Register Now!