I think it's more the connection for me anyway? I've been with the spectrum of different age ladies. Some young ladies that we just connected and some more mature ladies with a major disconnect?
I think I do tend to look for more mature providers though thinking there will be a better connection.
Kim I'm not sure if we were just relaxing and started talking about remember when we used to crawl under our desks in grade school practicing for a nuclear attack from Russia? Then again I have never been with a 60 year old provider that could have a discussion about it anyway.
Ok guys,
So I am a young woman but have always been told that I have an old soul.
I am curious though, do women become better lovers as they get older?
Would you say as we age that...
a) We go from mediocre to better
b) We stay mediocre
c) If we are young, hot and passionate, then we become even more hot and passionate as we age.
d) We go from hot and passionate to inattentive, boring and distant as we age.
e) none of the above ...then what?
The reason I ask is because I asked a married question on this board last week and most guys seemed to think I am only passionate,attentive and a pleaser because I am young but when I age my attitude will change.
I don't plan on doing that and hope that is not the case.
But I must admit that I shy away from ladies under 30, and really prefer the over 35 crowd. Their passion is "unique" and most seem to get me. Maybe it's me in that I relate to mature ladies at a level that is hard to achieve with the under 30 crowd....But I have to say, you're attractive although under 30...But I would never throw you out of my bed,,,
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You might if I farted...lol
That is so funny because I can't relate to most men under 40. It seems most in general just are clueless when it comes to how to treated a lady correctly.
I don't give a shit (not on my face) how hot you are....lol
Younger gals are wild and fun and in some cases very sexual...
30 - 40 they are ALL very, very sexual but sometimes the passion for life is diminished as we are socialised (and the world just gets so much smaller).
2015 - I exclusively saw 34+ Supergoddesses...
2016 - I almost exclusively saw under 25 future Supergoddesses...
Both years I learned so many things from so many very special humans...
Well, here's a few thoughts.
For women I would imagine that their skill or art in the bedroom has as much to do with layer of cultural indoctrination. The further they are from that toxic cool-aid the more they can enter the mental space necessary to achieve truly cosmic orgasms.
There's a huge wave of kids now who .1.) got sex with their sex education (porn) and 2. ) did not drink the cool-aid about girls don't poop; Madonna/whore complex, monogamy for life, sex is only for procreating, girls are dirty, etc.
They think nothing of broadcasting their sex life on Chaturbate, etc. So I think it's fabulous that there is so much porn (it will get better) and openness with them.
Which is all to make the point that many of these young guys know more about sex at 30 than guys in their 50s. They are often great lovers. and I mean GREAT. They read the Kama Sutra, they watch instructional videos and they ask questions. Those girls are so lucky!
Then, people experience the world physically varies greatly. Some people's bodies speak very loudly to them, and some are mute.
Some people don't feel where they are in time and space, like a bad dancer, which can be a pain, literally, in bed.
They're on your hair, pushing too hard on your leg, digging their chin into your clavicle ( a favorite )rubbing your pelvic bone to dust. etc.. just in general flailing about the bed. No fun.
The other barrier is personality. If this is a know it all, they're going to be a know it all in bed, which means they don't know jack because they never asked questions and they brush off advice. I have a headache...
So, if anyone wants some feedback on whether or not you're a good lover, I'm happy to conduct assessments. 
....but an older gal will know her way around my body better, and her DATY tends to improve with age
But in truth every woman is so different that it really depends on the person rather than the age.
Which Should have been included as "all of the above." In my experience, sexuality and aging are highly individual, and I have known various women that match each one of your categories. Some get better, some get worse. Some become more passionate, while others would just as soon go to the dentist as have sex.
I can't take credit for this comment, it was made by mrfisher. But I opine, it's one of the best I've ever read on any TER Board. "I prefer older women who think younger and younger women who think older." I think that about covers it!
She might be (in)experienced and you might not or be so.
Thus it's really about the two of you (or more) and not the age of those involved.
agree. its chemistry and trust.
I think it's more the connection for me anyway? I've been with the spectrum of different age ladies. Some young ladies that we just connected and some more mature ladies with a major disconnect?
I think I do tend to look for more mature providers though thinking there will be a better connection.
Kim I'm not sure if we were just relaxing and started talking about remember when we used to crawl under our desks in grade school practicing for a nuclear attack from Russia? Then again I have never been with a 60 year old provider that could have a discussion about it anyway.
Chemistry.
It certainly is a combination of factors, but for men and women the biggest factor is the mindset of the person.
Do they enjoy lovemaking?
Do they enjoy pleasing their partner?
Do they want to develop their skills?
Do they want each time to be special?
If the answer is yes to these questions, they will undoubtedly get better with age as they learn how to use their bodies more and more. We believe this is why so many people (hobbiests and providers) enjoy more mature partners. There is nothing better than a partner who wants to please you and learn something new (regardless of age). It is why we like to teach/play with younger friends and why we enjoy playing with those who are more experienced.
It's also why group play is so much fun because there are more to teach/learn from....but that is a entirely different thread
Like a few have said, so much depends on the mindset of the lady.
I've been with both older and younger women that are obviously just here for the money. They go thru the motions, but aren't in to it. And I've been with both older and younger that are enthusiastic lovers and make each experience a real joy. I have found though, that most women in this business improve as lovers with age and experiences. Either that or they drop out. Outside of this though, I think it really depends on the woman. If every woman developed into an amazing lover over time, there would be no married men looking for partners here, right?
Generally, if you're sexual and adventurous when you're young, your experiences will bring you more confidence to try more things. As you try more, you'll get better at it. Unless something changes that arc, you'll keep improving as you age. Of course, life has a way of screwing that up, whether by actions of someone else, or hormones, or accident.
I know my preferences now are for women in their upper 20s-30s. My ATFs are both in their late 30s to 40s and are amazing women and enthusiastic partners. That's why I keep going back to see them!
play safe!
DkG
Any recommendations?
Great question and I believe the answer is, it depends. I have been with both and it depends on the individual.
Personally I know that I have become a much better lover as I mature and depending on the person I'm with will allow me to continue to peak. I believe point D, applies to so many marriages rather than encounters, but we should all take notice that if married then we bear some of that responsibility.
I wish I had the financial ability to meet more great available woman such as yourself.
Age does not matter much..
But I have my preferences
I prefer mature guys with a sexy grey hair and wisdom smile, smart and confident
men who knows how stimulate not only your body... but also your mind!!
I think That a good sex About ...mind and body
Now I think I am better lover... after beeing a escort
I learn a lot .....A LOT!!!
Thank u guys and
Ladies
> Smiling
> CC
Ahhh Words of wisdom!! but your Jedi training is not complete young Skywalker...
Your question is not relative to just women.
As others have said it is a matter of a person's nature and experience, together. That is really it.
If one has sex regularly and just phones it in, I can't see any kind of improvement over time. There has to be an interest and some level of enthusiasm in order to progress. Over time with regular activity a person will know what they like and don't like and want learn from their experiences. If one is closed minded, they will remain static.
Also, I believe a connection with someone comes into play. Some people just connect better mentally and that carries over into the physicality of sex. A switch turns on just with the right amount of that certain something, that in Hollywood is known as "it".
Some people fight aging and others embrace it.