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Re: naive questions about cbj
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Or If your making an appt thru the providers website, make sure to put in the comment box that you prefer CBJ.  That way the provider is aware before hand and knows to bring a flavored raincoat :)


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I've done my research, feel I'm ready to take the plunge - many will think I'M crazy, but I'm just going to be a whole lot more comfortable going cbj initially.

My question is: do most providers offer cbj - and is it safe to assume they have/provide ("special ") cover for that? I am assuming they don't use the same type for all services - but maybe I'm wrong???

Seen some reviews where cbj only offered - so no questions on that... but many providers offer bbbj in their repertoire but make no mention of offering cover.

Lastly, and again, probably naive on my part, and not my worry - but do providers that offer bbbj get insulted if asked for cover? and when to ask? after the donation seems a little late, but understand can't be graphic in email or phone contact prior... or can you simply tell them you're looking to play safely, would like cover for everything and leave it at that without being too detailed (don't mention oral sex, fellatio, or BJs)?

Thanks in advance for your patience.

They use the same cover for BJ as for intercourse. Mainly because the covers most providers use isn't lubricated or have spermicide on them as that may cause complications with the provider when used too often.

No it is not an insult to ask for a cover for everything. It is your dime, all you need to do is let her know that you would like to be covered for all playtime. As for when to say it, as you are getting undressed would be a good time. After the donation is not a little late to say so, in fact you should wait until you both are getting good and comfortable in your nakedness with each other and mention that you want to be covered for all playing around. She will not be offended, I guarantee you.

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Or If your making an appt thru the providers website, make sure to put in the comment box that you prefer CBJ.  That way the provider is aware before hand and knows to bring a flavored raincoat :)


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yes balathazar, there is flavored lube and it's very tasty :D
I personally like strawberry and banana

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-- Modified on 1/7/2008 1:58:29 PM

I've had girlfriends tell me they won't suck my cock after I've had a rubber on. There is something inherently unpleasant about latex I'm guessing. While I've never tasted it - thank god - I can imagine it is not wholly pleasant. Why most providers burn out on CBJ's real quick, where if its BBBJ you can get a nice long blow.

If I were you, I'd just go for the ones that do exclusive CBJ (not big on these ladies myself, but respect them).

I would NOT mention any sexual acts in email/or the phone, it kicks up an LE Flag. Your best bet is just to simply review the reviews, and pick the CBJ ladies.

I personally am baffeled by anyone wanting a cover for that -- but I understand, generally, I find CBJ to be a waste of time. Condoms are a ncessary evil for sex itself, but if it were the 60's I probably wouldn't use those either.

-M

My preference is for BBBJ since I do not care for the taste of latex. I would not be at all insulted if a gentleman asked me to use a cover, and would be very happy to accommodate your request. In fact, I see a few gentlemen who prefer that I use protection. I understand that their concern is for their safety, and I wouldn't dream of questioning that.

This is one request you can quite likely save until you meet her without worrying about whether it will create a problem. I can't imagine a lady being bothered by your wanting to be safe.

Good luck and happy hobbying!

Really appreciate the info / advice! Obviously bbbj is my pref, just my comfort level with safety. At least I'll be confident to ask about it now, without fear of offending, and I have a sense of what to expect.

Thanks again.

That is an easy request for the ladies.  The reverse is not true (CBJ lady who will change to BBBJ).

But some ladies are definitely better at it than others. I prefer BBBJ but I'll book with a CBJ lady if I'm traveling and she is the best available option. Some gals are just great at it-applying the cover with their mouths, working your balls with their hand...woohooo! Some ladies will use a non-lubricated condom for the CBJ and then switch to a lubricated condom for penetration. Others just apply the lube to their pussy and jump on!

"is it safe to assume they have/provide ("special ") cover for that? I am assuming they don't use the same type for all services - but maybe I'm wrong???"

I use the same condom for CBJ and FS.
I change condoms for Greek, though, obviously.

I can't see an escort saying "no" to CBJ.

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