I actually believe that a mature provider would probably feel honored to be his first.I sorta doubt that a twentysomething provider would feel as comfortable deflowering a 37 year old.
Good Luck, I hope it is everything that you've been hoping for.
I'm a 37 year old virgin (I really am) and I've finally decided to take the plunge. I've narrowed my choices down to 2 very highly reviewed providers in NYC. My question is when and how do I broach this subject with the provider & is this going to present a problem?
I would be honest with her from the start. See if you can't get to know her via e-mail and then bring it up at some point along the way so that when you do visit her she knows what to expect.
If she chooses not to accept, then simply move on to another girl who will gladly accept your request.
Also, be careful of newbie attachment. The relationships between people in the hobby are much different than those between people in civvie life.
Good luck to you!
Vivace, this is an outstanding response to this guy, especially the attachment warning.
I would only add that he may have a more relaxed and memorable experience with an older provider than a younger one (old of course being in relation to his age).
I actually believe that a mature provider would probably feel honored to be his first.I sorta doubt that a twentysomething provider would feel as comfortable deflowering a 37 year old.
Good Luck, I hope it is everything that you've been hoping for.
MILF's to some, that would love to show you the way. Enjoy. Stay away from the 20 somethings for the time being.
I feel for ya man. I dont' know your situation as to why it hasn't happened, but that sucks.
I agree with these other guys' 20 year old chicks are going to be weirded out. To me, your not going to connect at your age with those youngins' anyway.
I can't stand , generally, girls under 30 anyway. Sure I've fucked them in civvie and provider life, but you always feel like your trying to impress -- as opposed to connect.
The generation of youth that is in that 19-23 year old range right now is not going to be kind to you, IMO. So like these guys said, I'd go with 30-40. Find someone highly rated and very attractive (want the first to be fun..sounds like you did that..)
Sit back and enjoy, I'd just tell her, I think most women would love that. Actually , to me, the move would be tell her right before she starts the sex act. If shes the right girl , she'll get a sparkle in her eye and take that as a challenge and teaching session. Even ask her to teach you, girls as I've said before naturally wan't to be in control and to be teachers. (in that age range..)
Good luck!
Thanks for saving the youngsters for me. They've begun the process of jamming 49 candles into my cake, and I'm hoping that while they're searching for enough fire to ignite them all, I'll be spending some quality time with a 20-something.
I'm not worried about impressing her. Firstly, I've seen her eyes rolling back in her head. Secondly, it's all about me, LOL.
All that said, I do agree that the odds are better for a first timer with a lady with some mileage.